"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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dualman7

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I go to a gym loaded with hotties. Anyway there is this one girl who I can tell is definately interested. The problem is

A. We have ony spoken once

B> She looks like she's about 17, but with a perfect body.

Should I trust my instinct that she's too young and just look the other way when she is around me?

I am 22 BTW.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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rsxy

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I would ask her how old she is one day if you talk to her again. I wouldnt pass up the opportunity. Maybe she just turned 18? You never know...
 

sfalexi

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Or maybe she could just look young for her age.

Ways to find out might include seeing if she drives there alone (don't know what legal driving age is wherever you're from). Maybe (if you're into that stuff or can fake it well enough) ask her horoscope sign and then ask her when she was born. Maybe get into a convo, show her your license picture telling her you don't photograph well, then ask to see hers or something like that.

Alexi
 

Fumbduck

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I've seen threads about 'legal' ages before, not necessarily on this website- but others.

Correct me if i'm wrong, but from what i've seen you can have a 4 year grace period.

16+4=20 (20 y/o guy, 16 y/o girl)
17+4=21 (21 y/o guy, 17 y/o girl)

I've also seen people divide their own age by two, then add 7. There's a lot of wacky forumlas and stuff out there.

Just use your best judgement when it comes to this.

Good luck bro

-FD
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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Luveno

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If its not illegal, and you are interested in only sex, then go for it. Seventeen year olds aren't known for their LTR skills.
 

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Well i'm from Queensland, Australia, and the legal age here is 16. Once they're over 16 they can do whoever they want (there is an exception to those who are in a position of power over them, e.g. teacher or doctor etc.)..

Anyway, I thought there was a 2 year grace period in the U.S. (not that i know much about over there). E.g. If you're 18 you can go for youngest of 16, 19 go for 17, then from there on it's just 18+? Gotta allow for relationships that started earlier.
 

Heizen

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That is not how it works

Age of consent changes with every state (Rangine from 14 to 18 for consent to have heterosexual sex), but usually once you are over 18, you cannot tap anything younger then 18, legally.

With that said, I say go for it anyways.
 

bud_2005

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Famous people are doing it so why can't you. When Lindsay Lohan was 17 she was dating a 22 year old. Hilary Duff was seen kissing a 25 year old.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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