"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Damn Ugly girls

4afe

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What is it? I can attract ugly girls like no one else I know! When I had a low selfesteam I didnt set my sights on ugly girls, is it different for them or some thing? This last girl that was really into me was like a 4' tall indian girl (not native american, but indian). Do any of you have this problem? Im nice to every one and I dont want to seem like a fag and be like "im sorry....." but on the other hand I dont want to say "go fvck off...." . what do you guys do?
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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grifter

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omg i DONO!! I get descent girls that ask me out, but i can tell only the average/ugly girls hit on me... i mean i could get the hot girls, but the ugly/avg girls only come on to me for some reason.. probably its because i am such a terrific man.
 

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Two reasons actually. Ugly girls are "easy". Also you are likely less intimidated by ugly girls (because you don't give a **** about them) so that helps alot.
 

Mercenary

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Originally posted by 4afe
Do any of you have this problem? Im nice to every one and I dont want to seem like a fag and be like "im sorry....." but on the other hand I dont want to say "go fvck off...." . what do you guys do?
This is a good problem to have. Why?

1. If "unattractive" women are approaching you, then that means "attractive" women are attracted to you. (I realized long ago.)

2. If you are talking to "unattractive" women, then other women will compete to hold your attention.

3. "unattractive" women are good practice. It's the perfect scenerio... they are female, and you don't give a fvck about the outcome...
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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SikWitIt

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Yea i have the same problem had this ugly chick talking to me i was the only guy in a room with like 10 chicks, and the ugly one was like your the only guy in here i was like yea i noticed then this really hot chick bust out with lets rape him? (lol) And proceeded to flirt by being the center of attention in the room.

And then thers the ugly chicks you talk to and then they like fall in love with you and wont leave you alone.
 

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Listen to Mercenary.

I used to be in the same position as you, 4afe. I thought, "Goddamn, why am I attracting ugly chicks?"

But then I found out: Ugly girls hit on you because it's to their ADVANTAGE to be the aggressor. Since they have little (or no) physical beauty to lure you to approach them, they moist hoist the task upon themselves.

You have attracted the uglies; this is good. It means that females at large (not just LARGE FEMALES lol) are attracted to you. It's just that the hot ones won't initiate because they don't have to.

When you were a raging AFC I bet NO girls were interested in you. Speaking from experience, that's the way it was for me. After I started "becoming DJ" uglies got infatuated with me and started calling me and inviting me out and grabbing my ass. It was a nightmare! At dances they would follow me around and shyt.

Well I didn't like the idea of those whales trying to get in my pants, BUT...I got lots of glances from HOT females at those dances. Now what u gotta do is make it clear that u just wanna be friends with the UGs. Use them to meet other chicks.

Take care, amigo. If the fatties keep coming after you, reinforce your doors so they can't bust em' down lol.
 

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Re: Re: Damn Ugly girls

Originally posted by Mercenary
This is a good problem to have. Why?

1. If "unattractive" women are approaching you, then that means "attractive" women are attracted to you. (I realized long ago.)

2. If you are talking to "unattractive" women, then other women will compete to hold your attention.

3. "unattractive" women are good practice. It's the perfect scenerio... they are female, and you don't give a fvck about the outcome...
Best advice of the day.

I realize this a while ago.

Ugly woman, because they, well... know that they are ugly, have do things that pretty woman don't, like let you know that they are attracted to you.

You will NEVER and I mean NEVER hear a HB 9 say "hey c utie, come here", but I get it litearly every day from 1s-5's. I even got it from 2 underage 7's yesterday.

A pretty woman will make it less ovbious, like looking at you and holding contact and then looking away. Pointing her body towards you or figiting with her hair, something small you just have to pick up on.


Also, a real DJ, like an insurance salesman is always "honing his skills" rather it be old ladies, young girls, or unactractive woman. Don't just narrow your skills to HB 8's and above.
 

Austin Allegro

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Man...just when you think you know all the DJ can know, you find out something new! I never thought that uglies going after you was a good sign but I now realise this is so true and can be used to your advantage to gain interest from hot chicks. Damn!
 
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