What is it? I can attract ugly girls like no one else I know! When I had a low selfesteam I didnt set my sights on ugly girls, is it different for them or some thing? This last girl that was really into me was like a 4' tall indian girl (not native american, but indian). Do any of you have this problem? Im nice to every one and I dont want to seem like a fag and be like "im sorry....." but on the other hand I dont want to say "go fvck off...." . what do you guys do?
"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
Damn Ugly girls
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"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
rgeere
Master Don Juan
Keep them as friends, meaning aquaintances.
omg i DONO!! I get descent girls that ask me out, but i can tell only the average/ugly girls hit on me... i mean i could get the hot girls, but the ugly/avg girls only come on to me for some reason.. probably its because i am such a terrific man.
Master Homer
Don Juan
Two reasons actually. Ugly girls are "easy". Also you are likely less intimidated by ugly girls (because you don't give a **** about them) so that helps alot.
This is a good problem to have. Why?Originally posted by 4afe
Do any of you have this problem? Im nice to every one and I dont want to seem like a fag and be like "im sorry....." but on the other hand I dont want to say "go fvck off...." . what do you guys do?
1. If "unattractive" women are approaching you, then that means "attractive" women are attracted to you. (I realized long ago.)
2. If you are talking to "unattractive" women, then other women will compete to hold your attention.
3. "unattractive" women are good practice. It's the perfect scenerio... they are female, and you don't give a fvck about the outcome...
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Yea i have the same problem had this ugly chick talking to me i was the only guy in a room with like 10 chicks, and the ugly one was like your the only guy in here i was like yea i noticed then this really hot chick bust out with lets rape him? (lol) And proceeded to flirt by being the center of attention in the room.
And then thers the ugly chicks you talk to and then they like fall in love with you and wont leave you alone.
And then thers the ugly chicks you talk to and then they like fall in love with you and wont leave you alone.
Listen to Mercenary.
I used to be in the same position as you, 4afe. I thought, "Goddamn, why am I attracting ugly chicks?"
But then I found out: Ugly girls hit on you because it's to their ADVANTAGE to be the aggressor. Since they have little (or no) physical beauty to lure you to approach them, they moist hoist the task upon themselves.
You have attracted the uglies; this is good. It means that females at large (not just LARGE FEMALES lol) are attracted to you. It's just that the hot ones won't initiate because they don't have to.
When you were a raging AFC I bet NO girls were interested in you. Speaking from experience, that's the way it was for me. After I started "becoming DJ" uglies got infatuated with me and started calling me and inviting me out and grabbing my ass. It was a nightmare! At dances they would follow me around and shyt.
Well I didn't like the idea of those whales trying to get in my pants, BUT...I got lots of glances from HOT females at those dances. Now what u gotta do is make it clear that u just wanna be friends with the UGs. Use them to meet other chicks.
Take care, amigo. If the fatties keep coming after you, reinforce your doors so they can't bust em' down lol.
I used to be in the same position as you, 4afe. I thought, "Goddamn, why am I attracting ugly chicks?"
But then I found out: Ugly girls hit on you because it's to their ADVANTAGE to be the aggressor. Since they have little (or no) physical beauty to lure you to approach them, they moist hoist the task upon themselves.
You have attracted the uglies; this is good. It means that females at large (not just LARGE FEMALES lol) are attracted to you. It's just that the hot ones won't initiate because they don't have to.
When you were a raging AFC I bet NO girls were interested in you. Speaking from experience, that's the way it was for me. After I started "becoming DJ" uglies got infatuated with me and started calling me and inviting me out and grabbing my ass. It was a nightmare! At dances they would follow me around and shyt.
Well I didn't like the idea of those whales trying to get in my pants, BUT...I got lots of glances from HOT females at those dances. Now what u gotta do is make it clear that u just wanna be friends with the UGs. Use them to meet other chicks.
Take care, amigo. If the fatties keep coming after you, reinforce your doors so they can't bust em' down lol.
backbreaker
Master Don Juan
Re: Re: Damn Ugly girls
I realize this a while ago.
Ugly woman, because they, well... know that they are ugly, have do things that pretty woman don't, like let you know that they are attracted to you.
You will NEVER and I mean NEVER hear a HB 9 say "hey c utie, come here", but I get it litearly every day from 1s-5's. I even got it from 2 underage 7's yesterday.
A pretty woman will make it less ovbious, like looking at you and holding contact and then looking away. Pointing her body towards you or figiting with her hair, something small you just have to pick up on.
Also, a real DJ, like an insurance salesman is always "honing his skills" rather it be old ladies, young girls, or unactractive woman. Don't just narrow your skills to HB 8's and above.
Best advice of the day.Originally posted by Mercenary
This is a good problem to have. Why?
1. If "unattractive" women are approaching you, then that means "attractive" women are attracted to you. (I realized long ago.)
2. If you are talking to "unattractive" women, then other women will compete to hold your attention.
3. "unattractive" women are good practice. It's the perfect scenerio... they are female, and you don't give a fvck about the outcome...
I realize this a while ago.
Ugly woman, because they, well... know that they are ugly, have do things that pretty woman don't, like let you know that they are attracted to you.
You will NEVER and I mean NEVER hear a HB 9 say "hey c utie, come here", but I get it litearly every day from 1s-5's. I even got it from 2 underage 7's yesterday.
A pretty woman will make it less ovbious, like looking at you and holding contact and then looking away. Pointing her body towards you or figiting with her hair, something small you just have to pick up on.
Also, a real DJ, like an insurance salesman is always "honing his skills" rather it be old ladies, young girls, or unactractive woman. Don't just narrow your skills to HB 8's and above.
Austin Allegro
Master Don Juan
Man...just when you think you know all the DJ can know, you find out something new! I never thought that uglies going after you was a good sign but I now realise this is so true and can be used to your advantage to gain interest from hot chicks. Damn!