“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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damn totally blindsided...feeling crappy

garruk

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so theres a plate.. pretty much my main one, the one i liked the most. usually shes the one to hit me up and ive been able to keep my distance and play it cool and everything.

2 days ago she hits me up like usual and i play it cool like usual. i tell her ill call her later in the week. now all of a sudden she's in a relationship with some other dude.

just feeling confused and wondering if i shoulda jumped in and maybe not been so distant, i dunno. just feeling kinda lost.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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garruk said:
so theres a plate.. pretty much my main one, the one i liked the most. usually shes the one to hit me up and ive been able to keep my distance and play it cool and everything.

2 days ago she hits me up like usual and i play it cool like usual. i tell her ill call her later in the week. now all of a sudden she's in a relationship with some other dude.

just feeling confused and wondering if i shoulda jumped in and maybe not been so distant, i dunno. just feeling kinda lost.
FB Remorse should be new term on here. You forgot the first rule of having a FB. It is always temporary! Either she will want a relationship, or when she sees shes not going to get one, she will bail. It's just the way it is.
 

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yeah i think thats it.

but now that she's in a relationship...i just want her more.
is this one-itis? because i have every intention to call another girl now to get my mind off it but to be honest i just want this one.

eff!
 

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Probably a case of wanting what is now not available to you. It might be crappy for a while if you felt invested in this girl, but whatever, you'll get over it.
 

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yeah i know i will its just torubling that i care so much about somehting out of my contorl
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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