"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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damn totally blindsided...feeling crappy

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so theres a plate.. pretty much my main one, the one i liked the most. usually shes the one to hit me up and ive been able to keep my distance and play it cool and everything.

2 days ago she hits me up like usual and i play it cool like usual. i tell her ill call her later in the week. now all of a sudden she's in a relationship with some other dude.

just feeling confused and wondering if i shoulda jumped in and maybe not been so distant, i dunno. just feeling kinda lost.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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garruk said:
so theres a plate.. pretty much my main one, the one i liked the most. usually shes the one to hit me up and ive been able to keep my distance and play it cool and everything.

2 days ago she hits me up like usual and i play it cool like usual. i tell her ill call her later in the week. now all of a sudden she's in a relationship with some other dude.

just feeling confused and wondering if i shoulda jumped in and maybe not been so distant, i dunno. just feeling kinda lost.
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FB Remorse should be new term on here. You forgot the first rule of having a FB. It is always temporary! Either she will want a relationship, or when she sees shes not going to get one, she will bail. It's just the way it is.
 
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garruk

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yeah i think thats it.

but now that she's in a relationship...i just want her more.
is this one-itis? because i have every intention to call another girl now to get my mind off it but to be honest i just want this one.

eff!
 
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Probably a case of wanting what is now not available to you. It might be crappy for a while if you felt invested in this girl, but whatever, you'll get over it.
 
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garruk

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yeah i know i will its just torubling that i care so much about somehting out of my contorl
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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