"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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damn totally blindsided...feeling crappy

garruk

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so theres a plate.. pretty much my main one, the one i liked the most. usually shes the one to hit me up and ive been able to keep my distance and play it cool and everything.

2 days ago she hits me up like usual and i play it cool like usual. i tell her ill call her later in the week. now all of a sudden she's in a relationship with some other dude.

just feeling confused and wondering if i shoulda jumped in and maybe not been so distant, i dunno. just feeling kinda lost.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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garruk said:
so theres a plate.. pretty much my main one, the one i liked the most. usually shes the one to hit me up and ive been able to keep my distance and play it cool and everything.

2 days ago she hits me up like usual and i play it cool like usual. i tell her ill call her later in the week. now all of a sudden she's in a relationship with some other dude.

just feeling confused and wondering if i shoulda jumped in and maybe not been so distant, i dunno. just feeling kinda lost.
FB Remorse should be new term on here. You forgot the first rule of having a FB. It is always temporary! Either she will want a relationship, or when she sees shes not going to get one, she will bail. It's just the way it is.
 

garruk

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yeah i think thats it.

but now that she's in a relationship...i just want her more.
is this one-itis? because i have every intention to call another girl now to get my mind off it but to be honest i just want this one.

eff!
 

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Probably a case of wanting what is now not available to you. It might be crappy for a while if you felt invested in this girl, but whatever, you'll get over it.
 

garruk

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yeah i know i will its just torubling that i care so much about somehting out of my contorl
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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