"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Damn those cell phones

R3N3G4D3

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This is not the first time this happens but today it really pissed me off. Basicly today our elevators (in my dorm on campus) work retardedly and if you call them up from downstairs they come up but the door never opens. So I casually walk up to them seeing 4 girls standing there cursing at the elevator for not opening. 3 were ok looking, but the 4th one was hot. So I ask them what the problem is and they explain it to me. As soon as they explain the problem to me I realize that since calling it up won't work, maybe calling it down might. I did just that, and the 3 not hot girls decided to use the stairs. Sure enough, right after they left the elevator opened its doors. I used this as a topic to start a conversation with the hot girl, but as we started talking her cell phone started ringing. So she picks it up and starts talking. Before I know it, it's my floor and I have to leave. I need to freaking get one of those devices that disable all cell phones in the area in a portable form.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Omega

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Take her phone, smash it on the floor and jump on it.
 

R3N3G4D3

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First of all I don't see how disabling a cell phone is wussy. Wussy is being too afraid to start a convo, and cell phones prevent convos as in above example, so it's quite the contrary of wussiness. Second, most of the hospitals use cell phone disabling devices, so they are NOT illegal. And third of all, even if they were, a lot of stuff is illegal, but people still do it.
 

cactus3178

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Dude, it's just a simple fact of life. Cell phones will ring at some of the worst times......Murphy's law if you will ;)

Just poor timing, it's not like it's your fault.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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rgeere

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Originally posted by R3N3G4D3
First of all I don't see how disabling a cell phone is wussy.
Wussy is manipulating the enviroment around you at the expense of others, which includes messing with other peoples cell phones without them knowing.

I am sure that there are woman out there that will not let something so simple as a cell phone call interfere with her chances of seeing Mr. Availableandhot.
 

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lmao same thing happened to me! except the call was for me, i shoulda rejected it.. but i always think phone calls might be "emergencies".. turns out it was nothing, and i missed the HB.
 
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