"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Damn lil gal!

PeterCrouch

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So this is the situation

meet this gal at the weekend as you may already know, before the weekend she tells me the balls in my court and she likes it when a guy takes control

so weekend comes, we get no alone time, to do anything

get home, i tell her i couldnt take advantage coz of lack of alone time and im not hooking up with her infront of her friends

she says im suprised u didnt, as most guys would!

anyway, she and her friends are coming to mine and i say to her "so if you come to mine and i put the ball in your court, would ya take advantage?"

she says "the balls never in my court, you know i prefer it when the guy takes control"

stupid gal wont meet me alone as her friends will kill us both (long story they just would) but how am i supposed to get alone time with her to take control when her friends are about?


should i say, before we meet again with friends, as the guy whose gotta take control, im coming to yours to meet you alone?

(btw we live literally hours away, we cant just meet like that)

any help/advice?

cheers
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Do you go to Cornell?

Anway just take her and leave. That's how you have the ball in your court. She even said that she likes when a guy takes control. Take and go somewhere. By yourselves.
 

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no i dont

anyway, i said to her "well alright then, im gonna take control and say before you come to mine were meeting up alone, just me and u"

she said "lol we will see how it goes, night night x"
 

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That's not taking control. That's showing all your cards in a poker game. WHY would you tell her what your going to do?! Your supposed to be unpredictable. Just do it without her knowing.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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alright so what now?

anyway she loves being a challenge, i once told her i love it when a gal is a challenge and shes definatly playing up2 that!
 
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