"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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So this is the situation

meet this gal at the weekend as you may already know, before the weekend she tells me the balls in my court and she likes it when a guy takes control

so weekend comes, we get no alone time, to do anything

get home, i tell her i couldnt take advantage coz of lack of alone time and im not hooking up with her infront of her friends

she says im suprised u didnt, as most guys would!

anyway, she and her friends are coming to mine and i say to her "so if you come to mine and i put the ball in your court, would ya take advantage?"

she says "the balls never in my court, you know i prefer it when the guy takes control"

stupid gal wont meet me alone as her friends will kill us both (long story they just would) but how am i supposed to get alone time with her to take control when her friends are about?


should i say, before we meet again with friends, as the guy whose gotta take control, im coming to yours to meet you alone?

(btw we live literally hours away, we cant just meet like that)

any help/advice?

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"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Do you go to Cornell?

Anway just take her and leave. That's how you have the ball in your court. She even said that she likes when a guy takes control. Take and go somewhere. By yourselves.
 
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no i dont

anyway, i said to her "well alright then, im gonna take control and say before you come to mine were meeting up alone, just me and u"

she said "lol we will see how it goes, night night x"
 
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That's not taking control. That's showing all your cards in a poker game. WHY would you tell her what your going to do?! Your supposed to be unpredictable. Just do it without her knowing.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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alright so what now?

anyway she loves being a challenge, i once told her i love it when a gal is a challenge and shes definatly playing up2 that!
 
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