"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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DAMN I just had to flake on a girl and now she hates me

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I had a date set up with a cute girl I met online. I was getting ready for the date and shaved really fast and I nicked myself right beside my mouth and now the skin is all dry and red there. I thought OMG I can't go she is going to think I have a disease.

What the hell would I think if a girl had red crap on the corner of her mouth? I'd think "BYE BYE".

So I told her I had a family emergency can we reschedule? She said she was already at the coffee shop and told me to have a nice life basically.

Damn this stinks... but I did the right thing. I couldn't go like this.

Maybe now we can understand why chics flake sometimes.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Kingpin said:
I had a date set up with a cute girl I met online. I was getting ready for the date and shaved really fast and I nicked myself right beside my mouth and now the skin is all dry and red there. I thought OMG I can't go she is going to think I have a disease.

What the hell would I think if a girl had red crap on the corner of her mouth? I'd think "BYE BYE".

So I told her I had a family emergency can we reschedule? She said she was already at the coffee shop and told me to have a nice life basically.

Damn this stinks... but I did the right thing. I couldn't go like this.

Maybe now we can understand why chics flake sometimes.
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That was a horrible reason for flaking.

You should have told her that you cut yourself shaving.

Your brain is messing up your game, telling you stupid things like "OMG she might think I have a disease."

Stop thinking so much. You are a man, not a chick.
 
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It doesnt look like a cut. The skin on the corner of my mouth is all dry and red like an inch across. It looks like I have something going on but I don't. The skin just gets dry sometimes and looks that way. And its right on the corner like it could be cold sores or something.
 
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It doesnt look like a cut. The skin on the corner of my mouth is all dry and red like an inch across. It looks like I have something going on but I don't. The skin just gets dry sometimes and looks that way. And its right on the corner like it could be cold sores or something.
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There's an amazing invention that you might of heard of.

Its called a band-aid.

You really need to read Febreze's post on overthinking.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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And? If she asks you tell her, doing it with a smile (maybe even making fun of it). Just be real & cool. 8)
 
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The Muscle Guy said:
There's an amazing invention that you might of heard of.

Its called a band-aid.
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Band Aid on the corner of my mouth? I dont think that would have helped lol.
 
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I know most of these DJ's frown on sending flowers, but IMO you can send her some roses or something. when a man is wrong, a man is wrong. he shouldn't be afraid to make things right. the other alternative is a gift card for a restaurant under the guise that you wasted some of her time, so now you want to make it up to her. in that case, tell her she can have dinner with her friends to make up for her lost time. theres a good chance she will invite YOU to the dinner. then you are back in.
 
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Joe Stud said:
I know most of these DJ's frown on sending flowers, but IMO you can send her some roses or something. when a man is wrong, a man is wrong. he shouldn't be afraid to make things right. the other alternative is a gift card for a restaurant under the guise that you wasted some of her time, so now you want to make it up to her. in that case, tell her she can have dinner with her friends to make up for her lost time. theres a good chance she will invite YOU to the dinner. then you are back in.
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I'm just going to forget her and move on. I'm not broken up or anything. But I did want to meet her. Oh well... I freaked out because with all the diseases out there I was sure she would freak out about it.

I already told her I will buy her dinner to make it up she said no and told me to go to hell basically.
 
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learn to shave!
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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You did what you could. Oh well fvck it.
 
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Wow this actually opened my eyes to why chicks may actually flake sometimes. Thanks.
 
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Wow this actually opened my eyes to why chicks may actually flake sometimes. Thanks.
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That's what I thought too. I wasnt going on a first date with red crap on my mouth like I had a disease. Too bad the girl was a b!tch and told me to go to hell. I told her I had a family emergency. Maybe I should have told her the truth? "hey babe I got this dry cut skin on my mouth and I cant make the date cuz you will think I have a disease"... would that have gone better?
 
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play it cool, aloof & indifferent. maybe she will soften up and reapproach you.
in the meantime, use "edge" or some type of good shaving gell (not shaving cream), and be sure to use hot water first to soften up your beard. chicks like a smooth face anyway... feels good when you are rubbing it along the in side of their thighs, neck, etc.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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yes women love irritation rashes on their faces, neck and legs from our beard stubble ;)
 
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