"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Damn girl!

Stormblade

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I usually call my girl around monday or tuesday of the week and set something up.
I took her out for V day just some chinese and I bought her a single rose.
I figured id call extra late this week so she doesnt think she has me and I present a challenge
Tuesday she jumps on AIM at her freinds house. messages me right away we talk for bout 10 mins, I say aight i'll call you tomorrow.
She says, idk Im gonna be busy.
So I say, well I was thinking 10pm but if your busy then whatever
shes says, idk I could be doing anytihing
so I say, ok...Now im really not calling you, have fun with your paper
we say goodnight.

I dont want to look too deeply into this but I just found this extremely odd...I get a sign of interest then a major sign of disinterest. What do you guys think?
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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Most girls don't know what they are doing until the final minutes before they go out.

This is especially the case with younger chicks. They are so emotionally driven it is not funny.

The startling thing I have learnt recently is that chicks are even more flakier with their own friends. Like they would be the best of friends and they won't know what they FEEL like doing until two hours before. Most young chicks are incapable of making long term plans (unlike us LOGICAL guys).

I used to think that non-commital chicks are flaking on me, but you have to allow a certain degree of leeway because of the above facts.

Now I just know that if chicks are flaky on me, I haven't have her 100% into me yet. They like you, but they just don't know if they feel sexy enough to go out with you.
 
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Communicate thru the phone and not thru aim - you can't sense her feelings thru those messages. Call her and set up a date and see her in person. Avoid phone convo or aim.
 

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I will be ignoring her till the weekend is over, prob drop a call on her on Monday. She mentioned something about a week ago about her going to Newport this weekend. So looks like a good excuse not to talk to her to me.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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I know...thats whats irking me a bit.
Perhaps i'll call after I get out of the gym and im all sedated
 
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