Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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Damn girl!

Stormblade

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I usually call my girl around monday or tuesday of the week and set something up.
I took her out for V day just some chinese and I bought her a single rose.
I figured id call extra late this week so she doesnt think she has me and I present a challenge
Tuesday she jumps on AIM at her freinds house. messages me right away we talk for bout 10 mins, I say aight i'll call you tomorrow.
She says, idk Im gonna be busy.
So I say, well I was thinking 10pm but if your busy then whatever
shes says, idk I could be doing anytihing
so I say, ok...Now im really not calling you, have fun with your paper
we say goodnight.

I dont want to look too deeply into this but I just found this extremely odd...I get a sign of interest then a major sign of disinterest. What do you guys think?
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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Most girls don't know what they are doing until the final minutes before they go out.

This is especially the case with younger chicks. They are so emotionally driven it is not funny.

The startling thing I have learnt recently is that chicks are even more flakier with their own friends. Like they would be the best of friends and they won't know what they FEEL like doing until two hours before. Most young chicks are incapable of making long term plans (unlike us LOGICAL guys).

I used to think that non-commital chicks are flaking on me, but you have to allow a certain degree of leeway because of the above facts.

Now I just know that if chicks are flaky on me, I haven't have her 100% into me yet. They like you, but they just don't know if they feel sexy enough to go out with you.
 
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Communicate thru the phone and not thru aim - you can't sense her feelings thru those messages. Call her and set up a date and see her in person. Avoid phone convo or aim.
 

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I will be ignoring her till the weekend is over, prob drop a call on her on Monday. She mentioned something about a week ago about her going to Newport this weekend. So looks like a good excuse not to talk to her to me.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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I know...thats whats irking me a bit.
Perhaps i'll call after I get out of the gym and im all sedated
 
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