"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Damn Dunken Texts....

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Got a little drunk....told the girl im interested in I like her....shes goin away for the weekend, but she text me saying "I will talk to you Mon yeah x"


Good sign or Bad Sign ?????
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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I've been there and done that but a drunken dial, text etc... are usually the kiss of death.

That just the way it is.
 
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see a dunno....the texts ive been receivin....even after the drunken fumble so to speak, seem to have kept th air neutral....not as if shes offended or anything...

guess its just a wait and see....
 
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basically.....wed been textin each other or a few days, she told us how she dreamed about me etc....so i txt her sayin tha i liked her...she replied sayin id been drinkin....so i told her i was more sober than she thought.....so she txt back sayin...."well didnt see that one comin"..

Not very grammatical that story, but ya get the idea....
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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i have posted before concernin the same story like....this is just a kind of update...followin advice from my earlier post, it seems to have gone quite well...except for this slight hurdle....
 
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Well, you've shown your hand now and it's pretty difficult to do anything but wait.

However, your intentions are clear to her now, I've lost a few women through them thinking I don't like them, so from that POV, I think it's a good thing.
 
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yea man......ive been in the same boat as you to be fair...thought it was about time i did something...before some snotty nosed ****blocker jumped in there..cheers
 
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Big mistake buddy. Telling a girl you like her can only bring bad news.
 
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Big mistake buddy. Telling a girl you like her can only bring bad news.
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I disagree. It's a mistake if you get all needy and desperate about her.

You can tell a girl you like her, and not be a sap.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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My moneys on her not being interested after your text...sorry buddy.

The chase is sometimes the best bit. we all want what isnt easily obtainable.
 
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Inebriation rids one of inhibitions. You weren't supposed to turn in to a bithc.

That was a bad thing. Girls do NOT like telling people they like them. They don't like hearing it.

They expect you to go for it without knowing. A blind leap if you will.

It affirms their insecurities or some bullsiht.

Needless to say, they don't like pussies. Next time you drink, think about what you're doing.
 
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I disagree. It's a mistake if you get all needy and desperate about her.

You can tell a girl you like her, and not be a sap.
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Telling a girl you like her pisses her off and will make her run away. I can assure you of this. DO NOT think otherwise it will ruin you later. She only wants what she can't have, if you like her she has absolutley no reason to be with you.
 
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I believe time heals everything. This might take a lot of time time though. As in, play the field, maybe bring another girl around and forgetting about it for a few months.
 
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WesCottII said:
I disagree. It's a mistake if you get all needy and desperate about her.

You can tell a girl you like her, and not be a sap.
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true I just had this convo with a girl...

she goes "I get nervous around you do you get nervous too?"

me "I think everyone gets nervous around people they like"

Damn I'm getting better at this.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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she decided to txt us this morning out of the blue.....so from what I can gather...shes either different to every other girl on the planet and wants to make a go of this......or the more likely option....ive fallen into the friend zone..

All criticism is good..just allows us all to become better people....im not a virgin, but this is the first time ive liked a girl in this way...and gone about doing something about it. Granted, it wasnt the right thing, and theres a 90% that it aint gonna happen.....but with it being a first time, i now know what not to do in future.

Cheers for the reply's guys.....and if by the offchance anything does happen..youll be first to know
 
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