"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Damaged Broken Woman Really Are The Best..

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At fuking..

Other than fukin, you should avoid these women like the plague.. Recently had an encounter with one of these sloots.

Trust me you do not want to invest much time with these broken woman.

If she tells you she was sexualy abused as a child.. ejaculate & evacuate!

These type of woman end up hyper sexual due to the traumatic childhood experience.. you absolutely cannot do anything to fix these women..

They will cheat on you and manipulate you.

Anytime a woman tells you she was sexualy abused... Fukin run!!!


 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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If she was sexualy abused as a child
These type of woman end up hyper sexual due to the traumatic childhood experience..
Anytime a woman tells you she was sexualy abused... Fukin run
Exactly right, but it’s their porn level hyper sexuality that hooks most men. The man equates her sexual behavior to be love or attraction, but it’s Not. Been there done that, but prefer quality women now.
 

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The hyper sexuality is great, and if you're always willing to walk if she missteps there's always the chance she'll stab you in your sleep or something. So use a rubber, don't let her find out where you live, keep sharp objects away from her
You’re right about that. But there’s no emotional depth. Even when they tell you they really like you, it doesn’t have any weight to it. A woman’s validation can only have value if she withholds it from the majority of mediocre men and only give it to the rare great men. If she gives it away to everyone then my default mode is pump and dump.

There’s nothing I can do about it. It’s hardwired into my dna to be disgusted by low value slvts. My core tells me dealing with these women gives me a low probability of passing on my genes.

This is why it baffles my mind why women would ever play jealousy games. As soon as I see her give attention to another guy as a game, My respect for her goes from whatever it was to Zero, and it’s pump and dump mode.

Anything less than quality behavior and it’s pump and dump mode. The majority of women are too stupid to realize this . They say stupid stuff like “oh, I don’t sleep with guys on the first date”, basically telegraphing she’s a professional dater, and they wonder why the last 15 guys pump and dumped them.

Men do not respect women that are serial daters, attention wh0res, slvts, etc.

These women think they are winning but all the validation they get is fake and empty. It’s not until they hit the wall that they were just seen as sexy objects all along.
The really crazy ones will give you a good pump and act like angels to keep you coming back until you've wasted so much time pumping her that you're slightly comfortable/diminished. Then she goes to work taking an inch at a time. And if you dump her over an inch she'll try all sorts of manipulative tactics to get you back. To a centered man this is still all a fun challenge. The challenge being making her think she's taking inches when she really isn't. As guru puts it, beta throws. Time management challenges, mental/emotional/physical challenges, all sorts of things a man can use to hone himself.

It's a dangerous game, but like the saying goes ships are safest in harbor, but that's not what ships are for.
 

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The hyper sexuality is great, and if you're always willing to walk if she missteps there's always the chance she'll stab you in your sleep or something. So use a rubber, don't let her find out where you live, keep sharp objects away from her

The really crazy ones will give you a good pump and act like angels to keep you coming back until you've wasted so much time pumping her that you're slightly comfortable/diminished. Then she goes to work taking an inch at a time. And if you dump her over an inch she'll try all sorts of manipulative tactics to get you back. To a centered man this is still all a fun challenge. The challenge being making her think she's taking inches when she really isn't. As guru puts it, beta throws. Time management challenges, mental/emotional/physical challenges, all sorts of things a man can use to hone himself.

It's a dangerous game, but like the saying goes ships are safest in harbor, but that's not what ships are for.
Giving away fake inches. I love it.
 

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The thing about these types of women is that you don’t know they’re damaged and broken until you’ve already invested in them some. You aren’t the first man they’ve hooked and they know how to hook you, you think spilling the beans about their past right away is how they set their hooks in these men? Hell no! They don’t spring that deep stuff on you until MONTHS down the road.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Exactly right, but it’s their porn level hyper sexuality that hooks most men. The man equates her sexual behavior to be love or attraction, but it’s Not. Been there done that, but prefer quality women now.
Its always the porn level sex that traps the man... And these men eventually pay a heavy price for falling into the trap.

It simply boils down to RECOGNISING a damaged. Broken sloot when you meet one.

If you look for the signs, and realise who and what she is.. Then nothing wrong with some casual sex with her... But do NOT get attatched with one of these types.

Always have an exit date planned in your mind.. I would say maximum, smash the damaged chick for a month, maybe six week.. Then dump and head for the hills.

If you stay any longer, your at risk of catching FEELS, or getting love bombed and manipulated into a relationship.
 

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The thing about these types of women is that you don’t know they’re damaged and broken until you’ve already invested in them some. You aren’t the first man they’ve hooked and they know how to hook you, you think spilling the beans about their past right away is how they set their hooks in these men? Hell no! They don’t spring that deep stuff on you until MONTHS down the road.

Exactly.. This last sloot i was seeing.. It took her atleast 3 months to slowly reveal her true colours.

Only till month four, did the penny drop, and I realised that she was a full blown hoe/skank.
 
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Exactly.. This last sloot i was seeing.. It took her atleast 3 months to slowly reveal her true colours.

Only till month four, did the penny drop, and I realise that she was a full blow hoe/spank.
Yes, same here, about 3 months in she reveals being sexually molested by her stepfather as a teen.…
A damaged woman's sexual activity and proclivities is about the Only time you can’t judge by a woman's actions or words concerning you…
 

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Yes, same here, about 3 months in she reveals being sexually molested by her stepfather as a teen.…
A damaged woman's sexual activity and proclivities is the Only time you can’t judge by a woman's actions over her words concerning you…
The other problem is, us guys confuse sex/slvty sex with love or feelings.

Looking back now, two months later.. I didn't feel shyte for her.. Other than wanting to smash that sweet puzzy, and emptying my load in her, she didn't mean shyte to me.

I feel bad for a woman who has been sexualy abused as a child.. I really do..

However I aint her therapist.. I cant fix that hoe.. My instinct in the future, will be to run from these crazy hoes.. After I have ejaculated offcourse!
 

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There is no such thing as alpha and beta. A dominant and masculine man doesn't even see these things from women. Women are scared to lose his validation. Romance is a back drop to his life. His life is focused on changing his environment, not petty romance. When I am with women, I expect being fed with grapes. It's my recess time. If I suspect a headcase, I just replace her.

From age 14 to 35, I have no experience thinking fvcked up women are a challenge that I want to take on. I am naturally inclined to seek empowerment. And therefore, only keep women that empower me. But most importantly, women are secondary to my purpose.

I have better things to do then play these petty games with low quality women, lol.

You male seducers are pathetic, no offense.

If I have 5 quality women, I disqualify on the smallest offenses. It's the law of abundance. It's clear you have no concept of this. The more you have, the more you can afford to have high standards.
A beta throw is a fake weak behavior. I'm not sure what you think it is. I know what you mean, this fun can eventually mold a man into somewhat of a cheap manipulator himself, which is not his end goal. But that's yet another challenge. Most of the time the correct response is to walk and dismiss, but I find it interesting to think of other more positive alternatives. For example it's possible to inspire a woman and completely turn her around with no effort, simply by being great. Then the focus is not to manipulate or seduce, but to simply inspire through greatness.

I'm on a monk trip and have never identified as a seducer or tried to be one. Just like in some other convos of ours you assume incorrectly.

And all women test you, just to different degrees. Even the grape feeding angels. Maybe you're more risk averse and only go for safe bets, easy plays. I'm more risk prone, I enjoy a challenge even if it breaks me.
 
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"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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The problem with these women especially in the #metoo era whereby women got incentives for false accusations. They can project past trauma onto a man once she doesn't get what she wants. If you breakup or start seeing others, you don't need any state transference, thst being her projecting her past and ****ty lifestyle choices onto you. You play with fire with women who are not oriented right. You will get burned. A false accusations are not a good time. There's better options to pursue. I have crushed crazy and its not so much worth the effort or time.
 

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The thing about these types of women is that you don’t know they’re damaged and broken until you’ve already invested in them some. You aren’t the first man they’ve hooked and they know how to hook you, you think spilling the beans about their past right away is how they set their hooks in these men? Hell no! They don’t spring that deep stuff on you until MONTHS down the road.
They hide their ugly side till they feel comfortable enough to take the mask off then it’s oh fvck she’s nuts.
 

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There is no such thing as alpha and beta. A dominant and masculine man doesn't even see these things from women. Women are scared to lose his validation. Romance is a back drop to his life. His life is focused on changing his environment, not petty romance. When I am with women, I expect being fed with grapes. It's my recess time. If I suspect a headcase, I just replace her.

From age 14 to 35, I have no experience thinking fvcked up women are a challenge that I want to take on. I am naturally inclined to seek empowerment. And therefore, only keep women that empower me. But most importantly, women are secondary to my purpose.

I have better things to do then play these petty games with low quality women, lol.

You male seducers are pathetic, no offense.

If I have 5 quality women, I disqualify on the smallest offenses. It's the law of abundance. It's clear you have no concept of this. The more you have, the more you can afford to have high standards.
I agree with everything you say, but there is an art, a thrill of the hunt, in seducing a hottie. It literally is a lost art, nobody knows what the fvck romance is, nobody knows how to create space so she can fill in the void ...

anyways good post... but I stand by seduction.
 

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When will these threads about crazy women stop...

Males are born predators, learn to dismiss those weaker and spar with those that's stronger.

Women aren't strong in any sense unless a male hands over his own balls.
 

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At fuking..

Other than fukin, you should avoid these women like the plague.. Recently had an encounter with one of these sloots.

Trust me you do not want to invest much time with these broken woman.

If she tells you she was sexualy abused as a child.. ejaculate & evacuate!

These type of woman end up hyper sexual due to the traumatic childhood experience.. you absolutely cannot do anything to fix these women..

They will cheat on you and manipulate you.

Anytime a woman tells you she was sexualy abused... Fukin run!!!


Cluster B at their best, my ex wife still on rebound rs with lots of different guy and orbiter none of them has any clues when she chewed and spit them and being traumatised wondering wtf has just happened.. Shes a pure bpd, still wouldn't let me go so easily after 3 years apart of our divorced.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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You’re right about that. But there’s no emotional depth. Even when they tell you they really like you, it doesn’t have any weight to it. A woman’s validation can only have value if she withholds it from the majority of mediocre men and only give it to the rare great men. If she gives it away to everyone then my default mode is pump and dump.

There’s nothing I can do about it. It’s hardwired into my dna to be disgusted by low value slvts. My core tells me dealing with these women gives me a low probability of passing on my genes.

This is why it baffles my mind why women would ever play jealousy games. As soon as I see her give attention to another guy as a game, My respect for her goes from whatever it was to Zero, and it’s pump and dump mode.

Anything less than quality behavior and it’s pump and dump mode. The majority of women are too stupid to realize this . They say stupid stuff like “oh, I don’t sleep with guys on the first date”, basically telegraphing she’s a professional dater, and they wonder why the last 15 guys pump and dumped them.

Men do not respect women that are serial daters, attention wh0res, slvts, etc.

These women think they are winning but all the validation they get is fake and empty. It’s not until they hit the wall that they realize they were just seen as sex objects all along.

Women - if your validation is worthless, then there is no game that will save you from pump and dump. It’s inevitable.
Full of mindblowing insight you have mate, I almost think that we are twins.
 

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The thing about these types of women is that you don’t know they’re damaged and broken until you’ve already invested in them some. You aren’t the first man they’ve hooked and they know how to hook you, you think spilling the beans about their past right away is how they set their hooks in these men? Hell no! They don’t spring that deep stuff on you until MONTHS down the road.
You can spot them right away, the intensity of the relationship will goes 0-100mph in 5 seconds, you'll notice their lack of empathy, hollow looking eyes, they are crippled to responds to what others needs on empathy basis, acting like a 12 yo girl at most. Lack of real closeness and emotional bonding.

Their male target usually doesn't really give a **** about this thing mention above. They just need to feed, many called them an emotional vampires, you'll be suck and dry being left with a shell of your former self.
 

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It's good to keep in mind that you are not what the woman is after. The woman is after seductive/romantic emotions and experience. She is seeking a man that's acts as a channel and facilitates these emotions. You are a spring of love, it's flattering. If your spring dries up she will seek another. So do what you must to keep your spring flowing clear water that washes away any dirt she throws at it. cleanse, romance, and inspire her effortlessly. If she disrespects the spring you can always cut her off and find someone that does respect it.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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