"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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dad walked in on us

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john paul

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My dad walked in on me and my girlfriend tonight. Im pretty sure he saw her completely naked except for what i was blocking.

Shes still just in shock about it and obviously upset. I dont know what to say to make her feel better.

anyone have something to say that could get her to chill out and be able to laugh about it?
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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She's not going to chill out about it, just let it pass and never mention it again lol.
 
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time heals all things i guess. But i just feel so bad about it.
If i had just not of lost my paitence and not gotten too eager we would of waited till he was in bed and this would of never happened
 
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I'm afraid there's really not much you can do when something unfortunate like that happens, just try and brush it aside and hope she does the same I guess.

Don't beat yourself up about it though, it's not like you meant for it to happen or anything it was just unlucky.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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