"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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dad walked in on us

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john paul

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My dad walked in on me and my girlfriend tonight. Im pretty sure he saw her completely naked except for what i was blocking.

Shes still just in shock about it and obviously upset. I dont know what to say to make her feel better.

anyone have something to say that could get her to chill out and be able to laugh about it?
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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She's not going to chill out about it, just let it pass and never mention it again lol.
 
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time heals all things i guess. But i just feel so bad about it.
If i had just not of lost my paitence and not gotten too eager we would of waited till he was in bed and this would of never happened
 
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I'm afraid there's really not much you can do when something unfortunate like that happens, just try and brush it aside and hope she does the same I guess.

Don't beat yourself up about it though, it's not like you meant for it to happen or anything it was just unlucky.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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