"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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CYP's 100 # close FRs.

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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russell

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love this journal, too bad you stopped posting in it months ago.
 

cyp6

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WoW... six months. its been a while.

the one thing about life is it that its dynamic, always changing, never static. they say its evolution. nature systematically eliminates the outdated models. its a fact. either change or die. thats life. alot has happened but you guys dont wannna here about that.. let me get to the good stuff.. since last time i posted. iv met some cool girl.. gotten some punnanny.. and learned and grown alott. i have slowed my pua lifestyle considerably in the last several months due to some other things thats been going on. (some stuff i have to get done for school)

I wanted to share with you guys a project that iv been working on since i was seventeen. I have been wanting to reinvent my self...to turn into the ideal person that i want to be. and over the years i have been doing it slowly, each year improving a small part of that personality and identity. the last couple of months it has been my emotional side. I have always been distant and hard to connect with, i have a fear of getting emotionally burned i thought that emotions were weak, but iv been working on it. I haven't been able to cry for ten year, only a short time ago i was actually proud of that. anyways.. all the pieces are ready tobe put together. in the coming weeks i will blog what going on with me... if you guys want ill even post some field reports..although i don't do that as much as i use to do.
 
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