"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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CYP's 100 # close FRs.

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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russell

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love this journal, too bad you stopped posting in it months ago.
 

cyp6

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WoW... six months. its been a while.

the one thing about life is it that its dynamic, always changing, never static. they say its evolution. nature systematically eliminates the outdated models. its a fact. either change or die. thats life. alot has happened but you guys dont wannna here about that.. let me get to the good stuff.. since last time i posted. iv met some cool girl.. gotten some punnanny.. and learned and grown alott. i have slowed my pua lifestyle considerably in the last several months due to some other things thats been going on. (some stuff i have to get done for school)

I wanted to share with you guys a project that iv been working on since i was seventeen. I have been wanting to reinvent my self...to turn into the ideal person that i want to be. and over the years i have been doing it slowly, each year improving a small part of that personality and identity. the last couple of months it has been my emotional side. I have always been distant and hard to connect with, i have a fear of getting emotionally burned i thought that emotions were weak, but iv been working on it. I haven't been able to cry for ten year, only a short time ago i was actually proud of that. anyways.. all the pieces are ready tobe put together. in the coming weeks i will blog what going on with me... if you guys want ill even post some field reports..although i don't do that as much as i use to do.
 
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