"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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"Cutting out Masturbation''

020204

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I am on my third week and while I have done this challenge on a number of occassions I did slip for a while. Have found lots of stuff which confirm the power of this.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Mindgamez

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Man I tried but it's so hard sometimes! I used to do it at night because it helped me to go to sleep because I felt so relaxed after every time. It's a bad habit though.

Aight. No MB started from now. I'll tell you guys how it goes
 

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I hate to hijack your thread but i was wondering if anyone knew where the "masturbation discussion" thread in the archive went? That thread was my main motivation for quitting and I used to be able to go weeks without jerkin. Felt so good. But ever since it disapeared I have become really undisciplined with it and can barely go a day or two without it.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Marvin Gaye

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Negative thoughts down the drain just relax, let t
AH909 said:
I hate to hijack your thread but i was wondering if anyone knew where the "masturbation discussion" thread in the archive went? That thread was my main motivation for quitting and I used to be able to go weeks without jerkin. Felt so good. But ever since it disapeared I have become really undisciplined with it and can barely go a day or two without it.
It was deleted my brah
 

OzyBoy

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Once a week if i'm lucky. I would rather have some company but anyway... :p
 

TheMale

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i remember i had a time when i didnt masturbate for 4 years.
i was 15 and didnt masturbate until 19 !
since then, i had a relapse ... and i'm masturbating once or twice every weekend.

sometimes i dont for 2 or 3 weeks but i cant hold myself so i really need to get rid of this !
 
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