"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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020204

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I am on my third week and while I have done this challenge on a number of occassions I did slip for a while. Have found lots of stuff which confirm the power of this.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Mindgamez

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Man I tried but it's so hard sometimes! I used to do it at night because it helped me to go to sleep because I felt so relaxed after every time. It's a bad habit though.

Aight. No MB started from now. I'll tell you guys how it goes
 
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I hate to hijack your thread but i was wondering if anyone knew where the "masturbation discussion" thread in the archive went? That thread was my main motivation for quitting and I used to be able to go weeks without jerkin. Felt so good. But ever since it disapeared I have become really undisciplined with it and can barely go a day or two without it.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Marvin Gaye

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Negative thoughts down the drain just relax, let t
AH909 said:
I hate to hijack your thread but i was wondering if anyone knew where the "masturbation discussion" thread in the archive went? That thread was my main motivation for quitting and I used to be able to go weeks without jerkin. Felt so good. But ever since it disapeared I have become really undisciplined with it and can barely go a day or two without it.
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It was deleted my brah
 
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OzyBoy

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Once a week if i'm lucky. I would rather have some company but anyway... :p
 
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i remember i had a time when i didnt masturbate for 4 years.
i was 15 and didnt masturbate until 19 !
since then, i had a relapse ... and i'm masturbating once or twice every weekend.

sometimes i dont for 2 or 3 weeks but i cant hold myself so i really need to get rid of this !
 
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