Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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"Cutting out Masturbation''

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I am on my third week and while I have done this challenge on a number of occassions I did slip for a while. Have found lots of stuff which confirm the power of this.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Man I tried but it's so hard sometimes! I used to do it at night because it helped me to go to sleep because I felt so relaxed after every time. It's a bad habit though.

Aight. No MB started from now. I'll tell you guys how it goes
 
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I hate to hijack your thread but i was wondering if anyone knew where the "masturbation discussion" thread in the archive went? That thread was my main motivation for quitting and I used to be able to go weeks without jerkin. Felt so good. But ever since it disapeared I have become really undisciplined with it and can barely go a day or two without it.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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AH909 said:
I hate to hijack your thread but i was wondering if anyone knew where the "masturbation discussion" thread in the archive went? That thread was my main motivation for quitting and I used to be able to go weeks without jerkin. Felt so good. But ever since it disapeared I have become really undisciplined with it and can barely go a day or two without it.
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It was deleted my brah
 
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Once a week if i'm lucky. I would rather have some company but anyway... :p
 
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i remember i had a time when i didnt masturbate for 4 years.
i was 15 and didnt masturbate until 19 !
since then, i had a relapse ... and i'm masturbating once or twice every weekend.

sometimes i dont for 2 or 3 weeks but i cant hold myself so i really need to get rid of this !
 
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