Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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Cutting and Bulking on dorm food

lemieux66

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Hey guys,

So I'll be leaving for college this weekend, and I'm concerned about how the dorm food will affect my lifting.

If you guys could give any tips or sample diets for both cutting and bulking in a dorm setting, that would be appreciated.

Now, I will have a fridge, freezer, and microwave in my room, but keep in mind, I'll have limited money while I'm there.

Thanks a lot,
--Mike
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Metaphor

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Every college I visited has a pretty big cafeteria. The one I decided on I have unlimited entries. Just always eat clean, because you know most your classmates will be eatign fries day in and day out. Other then that..just pile on something that works. I doubt the chefs will mind giving you double the eggs for example. Also..if you got a protein powder or two in your room with the correct type of milk for bulking or cutting it would help a lot.
 

semag

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Eating for bulking or cutting is actually REALLY easy when you're at a dorm cafeteria.

First of all, many people complain about dorm cafeteria food, but if you're cutting at least... the food is going to be exactly the same as if you were to have it at home. Tuna, cottage cheese, and egg whites being giant staples.

With my dining commons, I know we weren't supposed to take much out, but I"d sneak out about 6 hardboiled eggs per meal (with 2 meals per day....) I'd eat 4 for breakfast, 4 in between lunch and dinner, and 4 after dinner time.... that's a really good set of about 30-40 g's of protein (I'm only eating the whites), and it's really easy/quick to do.

Because the meals are so regulated, you can get sick of things, but also find it really easy to make a plan and stick to it... The one thing you have to keep in mind, is to go to the cafeteria and pick the food you're going to eat scientifically, and not on how it's going to taste....

peace.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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