"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Cute??? Why cute?? What does it mean????

Poonani Maker

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A couple of weeks ago, I had a hs girl say, "omg, a Brad Pitt look-alike" while poking her girlfriend in cheerleader outfits. I'm about 13 years younger than brad pitt I guess and I just shrugged off their giggling and went on about my business. The young ones possess crazy imaginations, so I can always predict a fawning over me whenever I enter their presence. The college gals are more quiet and estudious or reserved. They secretly sneak peaks at me and wish I'd say something to them. Now the ones my age are running out of time baby-wise and if I don't notice them then they reject me real fast. It's like, "fck u, I don't have time to play games." The old ones are real grabby with me on my arm and stuff, have been around, and know our male lustful desires that we can be changed to wanting to fck on a dime in a heartbeat second.

Women, take what they say with a grain of salt. If you know who you are and what you've accomplished, you don't need a woman's opinion about you. If she says "you're cute" you can say "not necessarily" If she says, "you're so hot" you can say "not necessarily" If she says, "eww, you're old" or "gross" then you can say "not necessarily." You see, women are morons. They don't know nothing their parents or girlfriends don't tell them, so their opinion of you is like piss on a bus seat. Let em think whatever their furry little brains want to imagine about you. It ain't no sweat off my back. I just keep moving forward and bangin poon.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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Irs88

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I always saw that being called cute...is very bad.

When I was a freshmen in college(last year lol), people ALWAYS called me that. The first day of college was the first day I drank. I was like the "small brother" of one of the coolest down to earth guys on my floor. Naturally, I hung out with him a lot and he knew...A LOT OF GIRLS. Especially on the floor. He was very nice, funny, friendly, and get away with wearing anything! Sure he is 6 3' and i am just 5 8' :[.

My point being is that the girls always called me cute. I thought it meant that I was "inexperienced" with talking to girls.....which i am LOL. Even came to a stage where they let me play spin the bottle with them cause itd be fun lol. I swooped on that :] . Anyways, even when I meet people they call me cute after a bit. Maybe its the way I talked or acted? Well the point of this is that do you guys think being called cute can be because you are "out of your league" and "humoring the girl in interest" and mostly "unexperienced"??
 

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like what poonani says, I just ignore it. When a girl calls me that I just ignore it, smile for a sec(unintentionally, also get nervous :/) and change the topic. Is my reaction AFC like?
 

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she finds you attractive.

That's about all it means, and it's not really worth a whole lot IMHO. While a definate positive sign, you'll probably have to get her lusting after you with personality.
 
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