"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Cute??? Why cute?? What does it mean????

Poonani Maker

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A couple of weeks ago, I had a hs girl say, "omg, a Brad Pitt look-alike" while poking her girlfriend in cheerleader outfits. I'm about 13 years younger than brad pitt I guess and I just shrugged off their giggling and went on about my business. The young ones possess crazy imaginations, so I can always predict a fawning over me whenever I enter their presence. The college gals are more quiet and estudious or reserved. They secretly sneak peaks at me and wish I'd say something to them. Now the ones my age are running out of time baby-wise and if I don't notice them then they reject me real fast. It's like, "fck u, I don't have time to play games." The old ones are real grabby with me on my arm and stuff, have been around, and know our male lustful desires that we can be changed to wanting to fck on a dime in a heartbeat second.

Women, take what they say with a grain of salt. If you know who you are and what you've accomplished, you don't need a woman's opinion about you. If she says "you're cute" you can say "not necessarily" If she says, "you're so hot" you can say "not necessarily" If she says, "eww, you're old" or "gross" then you can say "not necessarily." You see, women are morons. They don't know nothing their parents or girlfriends don't tell them, so their opinion of you is like piss on a bus seat. Let em think whatever their furry little brains want to imagine about you. It ain't no sweat off my back. I just keep moving forward and bangin poon.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Irs88

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I always saw that being called cute...is very bad.

When I was a freshmen in college(last year lol), people ALWAYS called me that. The first day of college was the first day I drank. I was like the "small brother" of one of the coolest down to earth guys on my floor. Naturally, I hung out with him a lot and he knew...A LOT OF GIRLS. Especially on the floor. He was very nice, funny, friendly, and get away with wearing anything! Sure he is 6 3' and i am just 5 8' :[.

My point being is that the girls always called me cute. I thought it meant that I was "inexperienced" with talking to girls.....which i am LOL. Even came to a stage where they let me play spin the bottle with them cause itd be fun lol. I swooped on that :] . Anyways, even when I meet people they call me cute after a bit. Maybe its the way I talked or acted? Well the point of this is that do you guys think being called cute can be because you are "out of your league" and "humoring the girl in interest" and mostly "unexperienced"??
 

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like what poonani says, I just ignore it. When a girl calls me that I just ignore it, smile for a sec(unintentionally, also get nervous :/) and change the topic. Is my reaction AFC like?
 

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she finds you attractive.

That's about all it means, and it's not really worth a whole lot IMHO. While a definate positive sign, you'll probably have to get her lusting after you with personality.
 
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