"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Cute??? Why cute?? What does it mean????

Poonani Maker

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A couple of weeks ago, I had a hs girl say, "omg, a Brad Pitt look-alike" while poking her girlfriend in cheerleader outfits. I'm about 13 years younger than brad pitt I guess and I just shrugged off their giggling and went on about my business. The young ones possess crazy imaginations, so I can always predict a fawning over me whenever I enter their presence. The college gals are more quiet and estudious or reserved. They secretly sneak peaks at me and wish I'd say something to them. Now the ones my age are running out of time baby-wise and if I don't notice them then they reject me real fast. It's like, "fck u, I don't have time to play games." The old ones are real grabby with me on my arm and stuff, have been around, and know our male lustful desires that we can be changed to wanting to fck on a dime in a heartbeat second.

Women, take what they say with a grain of salt. If you know who you are and what you've accomplished, you don't need a woman's opinion about you. If she says "you're cute" you can say "not necessarily" If she says, "you're so hot" you can say "not necessarily" If she says, "eww, you're old" or "gross" then you can say "not necessarily." You see, women are morons. They don't know nothing their parents or girlfriends don't tell them, so their opinion of you is like piss on a bus seat. Let em think whatever their furry little brains want to imagine about you. It ain't no sweat off my back. I just keep moving forward and bangin poon.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Irs88

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I always saw that being called cute...is very bad.

When I was a freshmen in college(last year lol), people ALWAYS called me that. The first day of college was the first day I drank. I was like the "small brother" of one of the coolest down to earth guys on my floor. Naturally, I hung out with him a lot and he knew...A LOT OF GIRLS. Especially on the floor. He was very nice, funny, friendly, and get away with wearing anything! Sure he is 6 3' and i am just 5 8' :[.

My point being is that the girls always called me cute. I thought it meant that I was "inexperienced" with talking to girls.....which i am LOL. Even came to a stage where they let me play spin the bottle with them cause itd be fun lol. I swooped on that :] . Anyways, even when I meet people they call me cute after a bit. Maybe its the way I talked or acted? Well the point of this is that do you guys think being called cute can be because you are "out of your league" and "humoring the girl in interest" and mostly "unexperienced"??
 

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like what poonani says, I just ignore it. When a girl calls me that I just ignore it, smile for a sec(unintentionally, also get nervous :/) and change the topic. Is my reaction AFC like?
 

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she finds you attractive.

That's about all it means, and it's not really worth a whole lot IMHO. While a definate positive sign, you'll probably have to get her lusting after you with personality.
 
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