"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Cute but blind as a bat...

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I went shopping for grub, while parking these two chicks pull up in front of me to park. Both of them were wearing glasses. They got out and took their glasses off. Inside the store I noticed them squinting, so I decide to mack them. It turns out one of them hit me with the buggy and I made a huge scene. I said hey can't you see where are you going, then I said don't tell me you probably are one of those chicks that wear glasses but takes them off when not driving right. She turned beet red and said no. I could not help LMAO and then told her it was ok. Then I told her if she wanted to get my attention she did not have to run me over, the convo took off from there and got her number.

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"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Now thats C&F. Bravo my man, bravo.
 
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I want to see more stories like this on the DJ discussion forums. Well played.
 
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just make sure you hide her glasses on the first date. At least you'll be sure she won't run away when she sees your face

(i'm sorry it was too easy, i couldn't resist:D :whistle: )
 
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spider_007 said:
just make sure you hide her glasses on the first date. At least you'll be sure she won't run away when she sees your face

(i'm sorry it was too easy, i couldn't resist:D :whistle: )
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:eek: Haha, funny none the less :p
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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spider_007 said:
just make sure you hide her glasses on the first date. At least you'll be sure she won't run away when she sees your face

(i'm sorry it was too easy, i couldn't resist:D :whistle: )
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You are a classy guy! I have some bug spray with your name on it. :wave:

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