"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Cute but blind as a bat...

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I went shopping for grub, while parking these two chicks pull up in front of me to park. Both of them were wearing glasses. They got out and took their glasses off. Inside the store I noticed them squinting, so I decide to mack them. It turns out one of them hit me with the buggy and I made a huge scene. I said hey can't you see where are you going, then I said don't tell me you probably are one of those chicks that wear glasses but takes them off when not driving right. She turned beet red and said no. I could not help LMAO and then told her it was ok. Then I told her if she wanted to get my attention she did not have to run me over, the convo took off from there and got her number.

K
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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milrenkb

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Now thats C&F. Bravo my man, bravo.
 

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I want to see more stories like this on the DJ discussion forums. Well played.
 

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just make sure you hide her glasses on the first date. At least you'll be sure she won't run away when she sees your face

(i'm sorry it was too easy, i couldn't resist:D :whistle: )
 

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spider_007 said:
just make sure you hide her glasses on the first date. At least you'll be sure she won't run away when she sees your face

(i'm sorry it was too easy, i couldn't resist:D :whistle: )
:eek: Haha, funny none the less :p
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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spider_007 said:
just make sure you hide her glasses on the first date. At least you'll be sure she won't run away when she sees your face

(i'm sorry it was too easy, i couldn't resist:D :whistle: )
You are a classy guy! I have some bug spray with your name on it. :wave:

K
 
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