Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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Custom "dress/buttoned down" shirt

B-Lemond

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Ok guys, I need your help.

Where can I get get a custom buttoned down shirt, where I can put some pictures all over it. I want to put pics of me and my gf together all over the shirt to make it almost look like a plaid shirt except the squares would be uneven and different sizes but with pictures...it's gonna look HOT!

Where can I get this done? OR How can I get this done?
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Originally posted by bluelemond
^ thank you for that useless piece of information
You're only going to get made fun of for wearing that shirt.

Just trying to help you out there bud.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Smooth Player 056

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Originally posted by bluelemond
Nice looking out, but I'm confident enough to wear that.
I agree you will get made fun of big time..........even if your confident enough to wear stupid ****....ppl will still make fun of you. I know loosers who are confident enough to wear dirty sweatpants and a holed shirt....but they get made fun of.

By the WAy this is AFC big time.....
 

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Originally posted by Smooth Player 056

By the WAy this is AFC big time.....
If it were a girl I just met then yeah, it would be AFC. But when it's with a girl in a 8 month relationship, it's different.

You just proved to everyone out the why there isn't a LTR forum. You are a prime example of what would happen if there was one.

Here, read this short thread:
http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?threadid=85921
 

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Originally posted by bluelemond
If it were a girl I just met then yeah, it would be AFC. But when it's with a girl in a 8 month relationship, it's different.

You just proved to everyone out the why there isn't a LTR forum. You are a prime example of what would happen if there was one.

Here, read this short thread:
http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?threadid=85921
I am actually in MLTR's (multiple long term relationships)....I didnt mean any disrespect to you Bluelemond, but I think in theory its a cool idea....but its kinda overboard, even if she is your gf. Catstring Theory, commonly known as "push and pull" applies not only in sarging, but in LTR's also.
 

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Originally posted by Smooth Player 056
I am actually in MLTR's (multiple long term relationships)....I didnt mean any disrespect to you Bluelemond, but I think in theory its a cool idea....but its kinda overboard, even if she is your gf. Catstring Theory, commonly known as "push and pull" applies not only in sarging, but in LTR's also.
I guess I should clear things up, its a LDR so on the rare occasions that I would see her, it would be *smooth*... I'm not planning on wearing it often, just around her.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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unless the shirt had a very nice stylish cut and looked like it was done professionaly by a designer its not gonna look tight.

your gona end up with a walmart buttonup with some cheesy looking prints from that corny t shirt place at the mall.

good luck wit that cronie.
 

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Originally posted by bluelemond
If it were a girl I just met then yeah, it would be AFC. But when it's with a girl in a 8 month relationship, it's different.[/url]
Not really. I've been in a LTR with someone for over 2 years now and wouldn't ever consider making a shirt anything like what you've described... confidence has nothing to do with it, nor does the length of your relationship. Seriously, this is worse than a girl who gets a guys name tattoed on her back (though not as permanent).
Originally posted by bluelemond
I guess I should clear things up, its a LDR so on the rare occasions that I would see her,
No offense, but my respect just took a nosedive from the low it was at from the last quote.
 

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Originally posted by C00L
unless the shirt had a very nice stylish cut and looked like it was done professionaly by a designer its not gonna look tight.

your gona end up with a walmart buttonup with some cheesy looking prints from that corny t shirt place at the mall.

good luck wit that cronie.
:crackup: HAHAHAHA
Like he said guys unless it's done by a good company/website it won't do. What places do you guys recommend?
 

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Go for it!!! I would never do this, but ignore these guys and make your lil fancy shirt. This is something an LC chick would do.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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This isn't AFC. The shirt, however, would look totally disgusting, and your girlfriend would probably vomit if she saw you in it.

I've never seen a screenprinted button shirt.
 

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Originally posted by SELF-MASTERY
This is something an LC chick would do.
LC chick?

Origionally posted by doctoroxygen
The shirt, however, would look disgusting

Do you recommend I just use a t-shirt instead?





Also guys, I still need to know a place where I can get this done. Any ideas?
 

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yes a t-shirt plz......and make it black, with white backgrounds for the prints, u could have 4 on the front and like a quote on the back....with a picture underneath it describing it....but plz dont wear this shirt often, you would need to get the pictures printed on there by a professional, witch wouldnt cost alot...infact i know were u could get it down, in GA, but my friend ur in whereever you are, so i dont think i can help
 

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how much are u willing to spend on this?
 
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