"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Custom "dress/buttoned down" shirt

B-Lemond

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Ok guys, I need your help.

Where can I get get a custom buttoned down shirt, where I can put some pictures all over it. I want to put pics of me and my gf together all over the shirt to make it almost look like a plaid shirt except the squares would be uneven and different sizes but with pictures...it's gonna look HOT!

Where can I get this done? OR How can I get this done?
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Originally posted by bluelemond
^ thank you for that useless piece of information
You're only going to get made fun of for wearing that shirt.

Just trying to help you out there bud.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Originally posted by bluelemond
Nice looking out, but I'm confident enough to wear that.
I agree you will get made fun of big time..........even if your confident enough to wear stupid ****....ppl will still make fun of you. I know loosers who are confident enough to wear dirty sweatpants and a holed shirt....but they get made fun of.

By the WAy this is AFC big time.....
 

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Originally posted by Smooth Player 056

By the WAy this is AFC big time.....
If it were a girl I just met then yeah, it would be AFC. But when it's with a girl in a 8 month relationship, it's different.

You just proved to everyone out the why there isn't a LTR forum. You are a prime example of what would happen if there was one.

Here, read this short thread:
http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?threadid=85921
 

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Originally posted by bluelemond
If it were a girl I just met then yeah, it would be AFC. But when it's with a girl in a 8 month relationship, it's different.

You just proved to everyone out the why there isn't a LTR forum. You are a prime example of what would happen if there was one.

Here, read this short thread:
http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?threadid=85921
I am actually in MLTR's (multiple long term relationships)....I didnt mean any disrespect to you Bluelemond, but I think in theory its a cool idea....but its kinda overboard, even if she is your gf. Catstring Theory, commonly known as "push and pull" applies not only in sarging, but in LTR's also.
 

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Originally posted by Smooth Player 056
I am actually in MLTR's (multiple long term relationships)....I didnt mean any disrespect to you Bluelemond, but I think in theory its a cool idea....but its kinda overboard, even if she is your gf. Catstring Theory, commonly known as "push and pull" applies not only in sarging, but in LTR's also.
I guess I should clear things up, its a LDR so on the rare occasions that I would see her, it would be *smooth*... I'm not planning on wearing it often, just around her.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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unless the shirt had a very nice stylish cut and looked like it was done professionaly by a designer its not gonna look tight.

your gona end up with a walmart buttonup with some cheesy looking prints from that corny t shirt place at the mall.

good luck wit that cronie.
 

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Originally posted by bluelemond
If it were a girl I just met then yeah, it would be AFC. But when it's with a girl in a 8 month relationship, it's different.[/url]
Not really. I've been in a LTR with someone for over 2 years now and wouldn't ever consider making a shirt anything like what you've described... confidence has nothing to do with it, nor does the length of your relationship. Seriously, this is worse than a girl who gets a guys name tattoed on her back (though not as permanent).
Originally posted by bluelemond
I guess I should clear things up, its a LDR so on the rare occasions that I would see her,
No offense, but my respect just took a nosedive from the low it was at from the last quote.
 

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Originally posted by C00L
unless the shirt had a very nice stylish cut and looked like it was done professionaly by a designer its not gonna look tight.

your gona end up with a walmart buttonup with some cheesy looking prints from that corny t shirt place at the mall.

good luck wit that cronie.
:crackup: HAHAHAHA
Like he said guys unless it's done by a good company/website it won't do. What places do you guys recommend?
 

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Go for it!!! I would never do this, but ignore these guys and make your lil fancy shirt. This is something an LC chick would do.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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This isn't AFC. The shirt, however, would look totally disgusting, and your girlfriend would probably vomit if she saw you in it.

I've never seen a screenprinted button shirt.
 

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Originally posted by SELF-MASTERY
This is something an LC chick would do.
LC chick?

Origionally posted by doctoroxygen
The shirt, however, would look disgusting

Do you recommend I just use a t-shirt instead?





Also guys, I still need to know a place where I can get this done. Any ideas?
 

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yes a t-shirt plz......and make it black, with white backgrounds for the prints, u could have 4 on the front and like a quote on the back....with a picture underneath it describing it....but plz dont wear this shirt often, you would need to get the pictures printed on there by a professional, witch wouldnt cost alot...infact i know were u could get it down, in GA, but my friend ur in whereever you are, so i dont think i can help
 

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how much are u willing to spend on this?
 
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