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Custom "dress/buttoned down" shirt

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Ok guys, I need your help.

Where can I get get a custom buttoned down shirt, where I can put some pictures all over it. I want to put pics of me and my gf together all over the shirt to make it almost look like a plaid shirt except the squares would be uneven and different sizes but with pictures...it's gonna look HOT!

Where can I get this done? OR How can I get this done?
 

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Originally posted by bluelemond
^ thank you for that useless piece of information
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You're only going to get made fun of for wearing that shirt.

Just trying to help you out there bud.
 

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Originally posted by bluelemond
Nice looking out, but I'm confident enough to wear that.
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I agree you will get made fun of big time..........even if your confident enough to wear stupid ****....ppl will still make fun of you. I know loosers who are confident enough to wear dirty sweatpants and a holed shirt....but they get made fun of.

By the WAy this is AFC big time.....
 
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Originally posted by Smooth Player 056

By the WAy this is AFC big time.....
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If it were a girl I just met then yeah, it would be AFC. But when it's with a girl in a 8 month relationship, it's different.

You just proved to everyone out the why there isn't a LTR forum. You are a prime example of what would happen if there was one.

Here, read this short thread:
http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?threadid=85921
 
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Originally posted by bluelemond
If it were a girl I just met then yeah, it would be AFC. But when it's with a girl in a 8 month relationship, it's different.

You just proved to everyone out the why there isn't a LTR forum. You are a prime example of what would happen if there was one.

Here, read this short thread:
http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?threadid=85921
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I am actually in MLTR's (multiple long term relationships)....I didnt mean any disrespect to you Bluelemond, but I think in theory its a cool idea....but its kinda overboard, even if she is your gf. Catstring Theory, commonly known as "push and pull" applies not only in sarging, but in LTR's also.
 
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Originally posted by Smooth Player 056
I am actually in MLTR's (multiple long term relationships)....I didnt mean any disrespect to you Bluelemond, but I think in theory its a cool idea....but its kinda overboard, even if she is your gf. Catstring Theory, commonly known as "push and pull" applies not only in sarging, but in LTR's also.
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I guess I should clear things up, its a LDR so on the rare occasions that I would see her, it would be *smooth*... I'm not planning on wearing it often, just around her.
 

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unless the shirt had a very nice stylish cut and looked like it was done professionaly by a designer its not gonna look tight.

your gona end up with a walmart buttonup with some cheesy looking prints from that corny t shirt place at the mall.

good luck wit that cronie.
 
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Originally posted by bluelemond
If it were a girl I just met then yeah, it would be AFC. But when it's with a girl in a 8 month relationship, it's different.[/url]
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Not really. I've been in a LTR with someone for over 2 years now and wouldn't ever consider making a shirt anything like what you've described... confidence has nothing to do with it, nor does the length of your relationship. Seriously, this is worse than a girl who gets a guys name tattoed on her back (though not as permanent).
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I guess I should clear things up, its a LDR so on the rare occasions that I would see her,
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No offense, but my respect just took a nosedive from the low it was at from the last quote.
 
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Originally posted by C00L
unless the shirt had a very nice stylish cut and looked like it was done professionaly by a designer its not gonna look tight.

your gona end up with a walmart buttonup with some cheesy looking prints from that corny t shirt place at the mall.

good luck wit that cronie.
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:crackup: HAHAHAHA
Like he said guys unless it's done by a good company/website it won't do. What places do you guys recommend?
 
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Go for it!!! I would never do this, but ignore these guys and make your lil fancy shirt. This is something an LC chick would do.
 

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This isn't AFC. The shirt, however, would look totally disgusting, and your girlfriend would probably vomit if she saw you in it.

I've never seen a screenprinted button shirt.
 
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Originally posted by SELF-MASTERY
This is something an LC chick would do.
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LC chick?

Origionally posted by doctoroxygen
The shirt, however, would look disgusting
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Do you recommend I just use a t-shirt instead?





Also guys, I still need to know a place where I can get this done. Any ideas?
 
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yes a t-shirt plz......and make it black, with white backgrounds for the prints, u could have 4 on the front and like a quote on the back....with a picture underneath it describing it....but plz dont wear this shirt often, you would need to get the pictures printed on there by a professional, witch wouldnt cost alot...infact i know were u could get it down, in GA, but my friend ur in whereever you are, so i dont think i can help
 
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how much are u willing to spend on this?
 
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