"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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cunnilingus vs. sex... std

foomee

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Would I be more likely to get an std from a girl from sex with a condom, or going down on her?
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Skilla_Staz

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I'd research the known STDs.
 

A-Unit

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Re: lol

I don't get that.

Unequivocaly...going down on her.
Why?
You're not protected unless you have dental dam, or suran wrap.
Her fluids, and any diseases, go right to your mouth and into your body.

At least with a condom, you're not in direct contact, so you have a chance of avoiding most stds. Obviously, some regions of you, will touch her, so anything just outside her vag will likely be given to you, like herpes or hpv/warts.

Never go down on a random hookup. Never.

A-Unit
 
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