"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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cunnilingus vs. sex... std

foomee

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Would I be more likely to get an std from a girl from sex with a condom, or going down on her?
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Skilla_Staz

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I'd research the known STDs.
 

A-Unit

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Re: lol

I don't get that.

Unequivocaly...going down on her.
Why?
You're not protected unless you have dental dam, or suran wrap.
Her fluids, and any diseases, go right to your mouth and into your body.

At least with a condom, you're not in direct contact, so you have a chance of avoiding most stds. Obviously, some regions of you, will touch her, so anything just outside her vag will likely be given to you, like herpes or hpv/warts.

Never go down on a random hookup. Never.

A-Unit
 
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