"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Wow, back in the early days of the internets (mid-90s), one had to slowly download text files (then decode) from the USENET group alt.binaries.erotica.facials.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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every group has a leader, the most alpha person is the leader, even if they would be the most beta person in another group of way more manly men.

basically, your alphaness can be described like so, if your friends throw an event your alphaness is where you are on the scale of:

if you're not coming they cancel it <------------------------------------------------------------> nobody wants to invite you because your presence would ruin the fun.
I don't have friends.
 

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unless that's 100% by choice, you've got a huge mountain to climb to become alpha
I've been through more **** than any guy I know. I know a few local people from bars, but I don't really know their names or hang out with them.

The only guys I hang out with are ones that are working for me. I may have a conservation every few weeks, but nothing major.

I just did 4 years in prison. I definitely like my space to myself.
 

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I've been through more **** than any guy I know. I know a few local people from bars, but I don't really know their names or hang out with them.

The only guys I hang out with are ones that are working for me. I may have a conservation every few weeks, but nothing major.

I just did 4 years in prison. I definitely like my space to myself.
I recommend getting into online gaming, great but safe way to get used to socializing and making friends, then after that you can join a club or something
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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I just did 4 years in prison. I definitely like my space to myself.
That right there will get you all the pvssy you can handle, especially if you have a few tattoos too.
 

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I don't think there's anything cool about what I went to prison for. I could try...
then don't mention it or be vague about the reason but imply it's something cool.

"a felony" could mean anything from tax evading to high treason

"a violent crime" could mean anything from punching a nazi to a machete rampage

it totally works for you
 

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then don't mention it or be vague about the reason but imply it's something cool.

"a felony" could mean anything from tax evading to high treason

"a violent crime" could mean anything from punching a nazi to a machete rampage

it totally works for you
The only thing I'd imagine wouldn't work is any form of sexual crime, especially regarding children. I'd shut up completely about that type of crime.

@RichardTheFrog You seem to think money is the only way for you, but we've warned you about that path. If money is all you got if you eventually do find a woman she'll walk all over you and there's a high risk of her abusing you, because you didn't learn how to handle them. I'm not saying you should abandon making money, but your money is for you and not to get women. You should try to learn game in your spare time. You need to start off socializing, because you apparently don't even do much of that. Start talking to some people, try to make friends. When you feel you got some social experience try talking to women and take it a step further.
 

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I think he said it was for stalking once before - deffo not something you talk with plates about, ever.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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The only thing I'd imagine wouldn't work is any form of sexual crime, especially regarding children. I'd shut up completely about that type of crime.
I think he said it was for stalking once before - deffo not something you talk with plates about, ever.
keep in mind that he controls the story completely, he can decide how it's told. if it's for stalking he can tell the story of how his crazy ex girlfriend who hated him had him arrested for stalking her because he went to go pickup his clothes he left at her house, if it's for a sex crime or something involving underaged he can say that the girl had a fake ID so convincing she could've boarded a plane, etc.

if the girl is interested she'll take his side of the story (it's not like she's going to get conflicting details from anyone else), and if she doesn't believe him then she didn't want to believe him.
 
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keep in mind that he controls the story completely, he can decide how it's told. if it's for stalking he can tell the story of how his crazy ex girlfriend who hated him had him arrested for stalking her because he went to go pickup his clothes he left at her house, if it's for a sex crime or something involving underaged he can say that the girl had a fake ID so convincing she could've boarded a plane, etc.

if the girl is interested she'll take his side of the story (it's not like she's going to get conflicting details from anyone else), and if she doesn't believe him then she didn't want to believe him.
Actually, there are stories about it online. It was all over the news. I'm just gonna change my name in 2022. My version of the story is "I was ****ed up on acid."

I'll PM you my real name if you won't tell anyone.
 
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The only thing I'd imagine wouldn't work is any form of sexual crime, especially regarding children. I'd shut up completely about that type of crime.

@RichardTheFrog You seem to think money is the only way for you, but we've warned you about that path. If money is all you got if you eventually do find a woman she'll walk all over you and there's a high risk of her abusing you, because you didn't learn how to handle them. I'm not saying you should abandon making money, but your money is for you and not to get women. You should try to learn game in your spare time. You need to start off socializing, because you apparently don't even do much of that. Start talking to some people, try to make friends. When you feel you got some social experience try talking to women and take it a step further.
No, I don't think I'd let anyone walk all over me. I wouldn't pay her any more than I'd pay a prostitute. But I think I need to have money in order to have status. Otherwise, why would they even care who I am?
 

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Actually, there are stories about it online. It was all over the news. I'm just gonna change my name in 2022. My version of the story is "I was ****ed up on acid."

I'll PM you my real name if you won't tell anyone.
alright, we have a deal
 

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No, I don't think I'd let anyone walk all over me. I wouldn't pay her any more than I'd pay a prostitute. But I think I need to have money in order to have status. Otherwise, why would they even care who I am?
If you tie up your self-esteem to money you're screwed if your bank account dries out. If you tie up your self-esteem on something internal, like knowing you can make things happen you become independent from the external world for happiness.

A woman who doesn't care unless you're loaded is a shallow, selfish and spoiled gold digger who WILL disrespect you. Don't you want a woman who likes YOU and not your bank account? Come on man, raise your standards.

You can have money and easily be regarded as a scumbag, money does not guarantee status. Status is gained by socializing and showing personal strengths, not financial strength.

@devilkingx2 That's a risk. Better just let the past be past about that, it might work and there's a great chance it might backfire.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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If you tie up your self-esteem to money you're screwed if your bank account dries out. If you tie up your self-esteem on something internal, like knowing you can make things happen you become independent from the external world for happiness.

A woman who doesn't care unless you're loaded is a shallow, selfish and spoiled gold digger who WILL disrespect you. Don't you want a woman who likes YOU and not your bank account? Come on man, raise your standards.

You can have money and easily be regarded as a scumbag, money does not guarantee status. Status is gained by socializing and showing personal strengths, not financial strength.

@devilkingx2 That's a risk. Better just let the past be past about that, it might work and there's a great chance it might backfire.
I think he should just go with

"what were you in for?"
"you don't even want to know"
 

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every group has a leader, the most alpha person is the leader, even if they would be the most beta person in another group of way more manly men.

basically, your alphaness can be described like so, if your friends throw an event your alphaness is where you are on the scale of:

if you're not coming they cancel it <------------------------------------------------------------> nobody wants to invite you because your presence would ruin the fun.
Should a "physical alpha" Navy Seal with a 100 IQ be the ALPHA in a group of nuclear scientists?
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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