She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
I don't have friends.every group has a leader, the most alpha person is the leader, even if they would be the most beta person in another group of way more manly men.
basically, your alphaness can be described like so, if your friends throw an event your alphaness is where you are on the scale of:
if you're not coming they cancel it <------------------------------------------------------------> nobody wants to invite you because your presence would ruin the fun.
unless that's 100% by choice, you've got a huge mountain to climb to become alphaI don't have friends.
I've been through more **** than any guy I know. I know a few local people from bars, but I don't really know their names or hang out with them.unless that's 100% by choice, you've got a huge mountain to climb to become alpha
I recommend getting into online gaming, great but safe way to get used to socializing and making friends, then after that you can join a club or somethingI've been through more **** than any guy I know. I know a few local people from bars, but I don't really know their names or hang out with them.
The only guys I hang out with are ones that are working for me. I may have a conservation every few weeks, but nothing major.
I just did 4 years in prison. I definitely like my space to myself.
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
That right there will get you all the pvssy you can handle, especially if you have a few tattoos too.I just did 4 years in prison. I definitely like my space to myself.
I don't think there's anything cool about what I went to prison for. I could try...That right there will get you all the pvssy you can handle, especially if you have a few tattoos too.
then don't mention it or be vague about the reason but imply it's something cool.I don't think there's anything cool about what I went to prison for. I could try...
The only thing I'd imagine wouldn't work is any form of sexual crime, especially regarding children. I'd shut up completely about that type of crime.then don't mention it or be vague about the reason but imply it's something cool.
"a felony" could mean anything from tax evading to high treason
"a violent crime" could mean anything from punching a nazi to a machete rampage
it totally works for you
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
The only thing I'd imagine wouldn't work is any form of sexual crime, especially regarding children. I'd shut up completely about that type of crime.
keep in mind that he controls the story completely, he can decide how it's told. if it's for stalking he can tell the story of how his crazy ex girlfriend who hated him had him arrested for stalking her because he went to go pickup his clothes he left at her house, if it's for a sex crime or something involving underaged he can say that the girl had a fake ID so convincing she could've boarded a plane, etc.I think he said it was for stalking once before - deffo not something you talk with plates about, ever.
Actually, there are stories about it online. It was all over the news. I'm just gonna change my name in 2022. My version of the story is "I was ****ed up on acid."keep in mind that he controls the story completely, he can decide how it's told. if it's for stalking he can tell the story of how his crazy ex girlfriend who hated him had him arrested for stalking her because he went to go pickup his clothes he left at her house, if it's for a sex crime or something involving underaged he can say that the girl had a fake ID so convincing she could've boarded a plane, etc.
if the girl is interested she'll take his side of the story (it's not like she's going to get conflicting details from anyone else), and if she doesn't believe him then she didn't want to believe him.
No, I don't think I'd let anyone walk all over me. I wouldn't pay her any more than I'd pay a prostitute. But I think I need to have money in order to have status. Otherwise, why would they even care who I am?The only thing I'd imagine wouldn't work is any form of sexual crime, especially regarding children. I'd shut up completely about that type of crime.
@RichardTheFrog You seem to think money is the only way for you, but we've warned you about that path. If money is all you got if you eventually do find a woman she'll walk all over you and there's a high risk of her abusing you, because you didn't learn how to handle them. I'm not saying you should abandon making money, but your money is for you and not to get women. You should try to learn game in your spare time. You need to start off socializing, because you apparently don't even do much of that. Start talking to some people, try to make friends. When you feel you got some social experience try talking to women and take it a step further.
alright, we have a dealActually, there are stories about it online. It was all over the news. I'm just gonna change my name in 2022. My version of the story is "I was ****ed up on acid."
I'll PM you my real name if you won't tell anyone.
If you tie up your self-esteem to money you're screwed if your bank account dries out. If you tie up your self-esteem on something internal, like knowing you can make things happen you become independent from the external world for happiness.No, I don't think I'd let anyone walk all over me. I wouldn't pay her any more than I'd pay a prostitute. But I think I need to have money in order to have status. Otherwise, why would they even care who I am?
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
I think he should just go withIf you tie up your self-esteem to money you're screwed if your bank account dries out. If you tie up your self-esteem on something internal, like knowing you can make things happen you become independent from the external world for happiness.
A woman who doesn't care unless you're loaded is a shallow, selfish and spoiled gold digger who WILL disrespect you. Don't you want a woman who likes YOU and not your bank account? Come on man, raise your standards.
You can have money and easily be regarded as a scumbag, money does not guarantee status. Status is gained by socializing and showing personal strengths, not financial strength.
@devilkingx2 That's a risk. Better just let the past be past about that, it might work and there's a great chance it might backfire.
Wait a minute, you mean Richard the Frog isn't your real name?I'll PM you my real name if you won't tell anyone.
only in his heartWait a minute, you mean Richard the Frog isn't your real name?![]()
Should a "physical alpha" Navy Seal with a 100 IQ be the ALPHA in a group of nuclear scientists?every group has a leader, the most alpha person is the leader, even if they would be the most beta person in another group of way more manly men.
basically, your alphaness can be described like so, if your friends throw an event your alphaness is where you are on the scale of:
if you're not coming they cancel it <------------------------------------------------------------> nobody wants to invite you because your presence would ruin the fun.
Don't say this "stalking" bs to ANYONE... It will die down over time if anyone is carrying it forward.I think he said it was for stalking once before - deffo not something you talk with plates about, ever.
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.