The plates get cleared and the silence lands like a brick. You can feel her waiting. Your brain offers up your commute, your job, the weather — topics that have ended more second dates than bad breath.
Here's what most guys never learn: women hand out free conversational material all night long. Tiny clues about what they actually want to discuss. Catch them and you never run out of things to say — because she's telling you what to say next.
Rule 4 of the "22 Rules" trains your ear to catch every single one.
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
very curious!You're curious because you* entertained that idea.
But before you come to a conclusion, ask urself this question, r u even a man?
I hadn't considered that, you might be right. I've always found the reason for this practice a little befuddling also. I thought maybe there was a humiliation aspect to it (the husband wants to be humiliated), or maybe the guy just wants a different view of the action?Bi (gosh it sure is) curious
there is definitely a humiliation aspect to itI hadn't considered that, you might be right. I've always found the reason for this practice a little befuddling also. I thought maybe there was a humiliation aspect to it (the husband wants to be humiliated), or maybe the guy just wants a different view of the action?
Having a d1ck doesn't automatically qualify u as a man.last time i took a shower i checked , and i was still a biological male , unless something happened between this morning and now!
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
incest , now that's extremeNo self aware man would enjoy that. To a normal guy even a thought of that is sickening. There are a lot of twisted minds out there. Some guys even likes incest sex and stuff like.
that's not true, you wouldnt **** a tranny would you? thats cause its still a man.Having a d1ck doesn't automatically qualify u as a man.
thats truly sadProbably because they are terrible at sex and want to see how their wife reacts to a guy who can fvck her properly since he knows that is the closest he will ever get to experiencing it.
A boy in a man's body doesn't equate to being a man.that's not true, you wouldnt **** a tranny would you? thats cause its still a man.
And then you'd have dozens of males on here with a d1ck but cries non stop on here for years on end, some even a decade in Sosuave, shamelessly telling everybody that they gave permission to women to bully them over the years.
How is that being a man?
its still a man , just a weak one or un-enlightened man.
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
ok you have showed me something but im 50/50 on this one . on one hand im a man because i say im a fukkin man, and need no validation.A boy in a man's body doesn't equate to being a man.
To be qualified to earn the right to call urself a man, another man (a man who is recognised as manly) has to bestow it upon you.
That is why in some societies, there's a coming of age rites.
You need to pass it in order to be recognised as a man.
Now, if u insist that just having a d1ck makes u a man, then u r in a world of trouble because u hv limited urself.
Swinging... Will and Jada do it. Then the guys who share their wife without knowing. Everyone is not wired for it. IMHO natural man could not do it because he'd harm or kill the other guy.I would consider this a form of mental illness.
overdose on pride.I would consider this a form of mental illness.
damn , and look how that turned out, i guess in swinging there is ''rules'' , and i assume she colored outside the lines on this oneSwinging... Will and Jada do it. Then the guys who share their wife without knowing. Everyone is not wired for it. IMHO natural man could not do it because he'd harm or kill the other guy.
Imho we are supposed to be angry and want to take action. Nature put those feelings there intentionally. Its just like the guy getting mad when she's flirting on social media or trying to "hang" with male "friends". He knows its bull and a bad idea.Yeah, to each their own. Not for me.
They are okay now. I think they are uncommon in that they view each of their lives as separated "movies" they live. Will had alot of playtime in the last 20yrs. The difference being his babes were distant and unknown.overdose on pride.
damn , and look how that turned out, i guess in swinging there is ''rules'' , and i assume she colored outside the lines on this one
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
not for me either brotherYeah, to each their own. Not for me.
its in our DNA , men are sensitive to signs of cheating as women are sensitive to signs of men LEAVING and spreading their resources out. there has even been studies shown that as women ovulate , they get hornier for more top-tier ''chad'' like men , its our job to pretty much ''block that shot'' (if you want to be a family man)Imho we are supposed to be angry and want to take action. Nature put those feelings there intentionally. Its just like the guy getting mad when she's flirting on social media or trying to "hang" with male "friends". He knows its bull and a bad idea.
As fvcked up as what you're posted, it's unfortunately true.Because they are feminized men and the only way to cope with the thought of being left by the only women they can get (in their minds), is to sexualize it and pretend they are masculine enough to deal with it (i.e. being indifferent).
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.