"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
cuckold fantasies .. why do other men fantasize about watchin their wife get taken in front of them?
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"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
death_wish. .
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very curious!
i've been cheated on and it stings like hell and i dumped right away that's why i dont understand it?
last time i took a shower i checked , and i was still a biological male , unless something happened between this morning and now!
thanks for the post
zekko
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I hadn't considered that, you might be right. I've always found the reason for this practice a little befuddling also. I thought maybe there was a humiliation aspect to it (the husband wants to be humiliated), or maybe the guy just wants a different view of the action?
death_wish. .
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there is definitely a humiliation aspect to it
Having a d1ck doesn't automatically qualify u as a man.
A gay fvcker, who has a d1ck thinks of himself as a woman.
And then you'd have dozens of males on here with a d1ck but cries non stop on here for years on end, some even a decade in Sosuave, shamelessly telling everybody that they gave permission to women to bully them over the years.
How is that being a man?
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Romanemp22
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death_wish. .
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incest , now that's extreme
death_wish. .
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that's not true, you wouldnt **** a tranny would you? thats cause its still a man.
And then you'd have dozens of males on here with a d1ck but cries non stop on here for years on end, some even a decade in Sosuave, shamelessly telling everybody that they gave permission to women to bully them over the years.
How is that being a man?
its still a man , just a weak one or un-enlightened man.
death_wish. .
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thats truly sad
A boy in a man's body doesn't equate to being a man.
To be qualified to earn the right to call urself a man, another man (a man who is recognised as manly) has to bestow it upon you.
That is why in some societies, there's a coming of age rites.
You need to pass it in order to be recognised as a man.
Now, if u insist that just having a d1ck makes u a man, then u r in a world of trouble because u hv limited urself.
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
death_wish. .
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ok you have showed me something but im 50/50 on this one . on one hand im a man because i say im a fukkin man, and need no validation.
on the other hand it is true tht there is certain rites of passage , rwanda men are required to jump a certain height to be considered initiated to manhood, same like a gang , you must go through the other og's and get ''jumped in'' to prove your toughness which is like a hardened gang member pretty much puttin his neck on the line for you, by saying to the other OG's that you are tough enough to be a part of the group.
we should start another thread on this, so we don't get in the way of THIS discussion.
mrgoodstuff
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Swinging... Will and Jada do it. Then the guys who share their wife without knowing. Everyone is not wired for it. IMHO natural man could not do it because he'd harm or kill the other guy.
death_wish. .
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overdose on pride.
damn , and look how that turned out, i guess in swinging there is ''rules'' , and i assume she colored outside the lines on this one
mrgoodstuff
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Imho we are supposed to be angry and want to take action. Nature put those feelings there intentionally. Its just like the guy getting mad when she's flirting on social media or trying to "hang" with male "friends". He knows its bull and a bad idea.
mrgoodstuff
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They are okay now. I think they are uncommon in that they view each of their lives as separated "movies" they live. Will had alot of playtime in the last 20yrs. The difference being his babes were distant and unknown.
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
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not for me either brother
death_wish. .
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its in our DNA , men are sensitive to signs of cheating as women are sensitive to signs of men LEAVING and spreading their resources out. there has even been studies shown that as women ovulate , they get hornier for more top-tier ''chad'' like men , its our job to pretty much ''block that shot'' (if you want to be a family man)
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As fvcked up as what you're posted, it's unfortunately true.
There's so many men undergoing through it right now, they know or at least suspect that their women are fvcking someone else but choose to remain quiet.
“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”
Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.
I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.
Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules. Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.