"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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sandinista

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I don't know if what i'm doing now to work my ab's is the best way to go about it.

I'm doin' crunches, But i'm holding it for 6 seconds for each 1. I do 2 sets of 12 every other day.

Now, i'm starting to see some progress on my top ab's, & when i flex i can really feel them expand & harden, but everything below the top 2 doesn't really do anything.

Am i doing it right? or should i try a different approach?
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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il_duce

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Keep in mind that there is usually more fat covering the lower abs, so you won't see the definition show up in them right away. I remember having a 4 pack for the longest time. The two lowest abs are a real pain in the ass to get defined.
 

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Originally posted by Rico S
Lose the fat and you'll see your abs.
^^

Throw in some cardio and make sure you're diet's good, otherwise you will be doing crunches until bush's re-election.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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