"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Crunches

sandinista

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I don't know if what i'm doing now to work my ab's is the best way to go about it.

I'm doin' crunches, But i'm holding it for 6 seconds for each 1. I do 2 sets of 12 every other day.

Now, i'm starting to see some progress on my top ab's, & when i flex i can really feel them expand & harden, but everything below the top 2 doesn't really do anything.

Am i doing it right? or should i try a different approach?
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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il_duce

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Keep in mind that there is usually more fat covering the lower abs, so you won't see the definition show up in them right away. I remember having a 4 pack for the longest time. The two lowest abs are a real pain in the ass to get defined.
 

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Originally posted by Rico S
Lose the fat and you'll see your abs.
^^

Throw in some cardio and make sure you're diet's good, otherwise you will be doing crunches until bush's re-election.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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