"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
Crossed Arms Good???? WTF
- Thread starter mkk359
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"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
flippinfreak
Master Don Juan
IMHO, trying to read BL without initiating any of it, is just a way of finding really really boring girls. SAme goes for a girl look for a lone guy to chill with... same goes for GWM sarging lone females who are toogrumpy or high strung to approach.
Tha Realnezz
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It's all bs.
Boschy
Senior Don Juan
Not when you get it from a 'friend'Tha Realnezz said:Man it's all bs man.All these socalled Guru's are sheisters.They just want your money.They're building a fanbase online to sell them books and cd's and dvd's.
It's all bs.
"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
Bonhomme
Master Don Juan
1) She stays or moves close to you without being in a crowded situation in which doing so is inevitable. If there's a lot of space, and she stays close to you, she's attracted. If her breasts or midsection incidentally (or not so incidentally) touch you, she's very attracted.
2) If she smiles at you a real lot, she's attracted.
As for things like crossed arms, they could be signs of shyness or repulsion. Depends upon the person and the situation.
flippinfreak
Master Don Juan
I think he WANTS it to mean "I'm bored"(so I'm going to cross my arms cause I have nothing else to do)
Most of these guys are just speaking to bring up your confidence levels.