“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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Crossed Arms Good???? WTF

mkk359

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I recently ran across this in the Seduction Method by Carlos Xuma

INTERESTED PROBABLY Crosses arms


NOT INTERESTED Arms are open, uncrossed



WTF I thought closed arms were a bad sign. Some1 help me out.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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flippinfreak

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This is when you are watching a girl who is allalone in her own world. When she is not talking to anybody, but is simply staring, and waiting...

IMHO, trying to read BL without initiating any of it, is just a way of finding really really boring girls. SAme goes for a girl look for a lone guy to chill with... same goes for GWM sarging lone females who are toogrumpy or high strung to approach.
 

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Man it's all bs man.All these socalled Guru's are sheisters.They just want your money.They're building a fanbase online to sell them books and cd's and dvd's.

It's all bs.
 

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My response is in my sig. Nuff said.
 

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Tha Realnezz said:
Man it's all bs man.All these socalled Guru's are sheisters.They just want your money.They're building a fanbase online to sell them books and cd's and dvd's.

It's all bs.
Not when you get it from a 'friend'
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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About the only generalizations I've found that tend to hold true almost without fail that indicate a gal is attracted to you are:

1) She stays or moves close to you without being in a crowded situation in which doing so is inevitable. If there's a lot of space, and she stays close to you, she's attracted. If her breasts or midsection incidentally (or not so incidentally) touch you, she's very attracted.

2) If she smiles at you a real lot, she's attracted.

As for things like crossed arms, they could be signs of shyness or repulsion. Depends upon the person and the situation.
 

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But generally crossed arms are a sign of being defensive. Its not necessarily "bad"
 

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It also means, "I'm cold" or "my arms are tired"

I think he WANTS it to mean "I'm bored"(so I'm going to cross my arms cause I have nothing else to do)

Most of these guys are just speaking to bring up your confidence levels.
 
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