"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
Crossed Arms Good???? WTF
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"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
flippinfreak
Master Don Juan
IMHO, trying to read BL without initiating any of it, is just a way of finding really really boring girls. SAme goes for a girl look for a lone guy to chill with... same goes for GWM sarging lone females who are toogrumpy or high strung to approach.
Tha Realnezz
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It's all bs.
Boschy
Senior Don Juan
Not when you get it from a 'friend'Tha Realnezz said:Man it's all bs man.All these socalled Guru's are sheisters.They just want your money.They're building a fanbase online to sell them books and cd's and dvd's.
It's all bs.
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
Bonhomme
Master Don Juan
1) She stays or moves close to you without being in a crowded situation in which doing so is inevitable. If there's a lot of space, and she stays close to you, she's attracted. If her breasts or midsection incidentally (or not so incidentally) touch you, she's very attracted.
2) If she smiles at you a real lot, she's attracted.
As for things like crossed arms, they could be signs of shyness or repulsion. Depends upon the person and the situation.
flippinfreak
Master Don Juan
I think he WANTS it to mean "I'm bored"(so I'm going to cross my arms cause I have nothing else to do)
Most of these guys are just speaking to bring up your confidence levels.