"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Crossed Arms Good???? WTF

mkk359

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I recently ran across this in the Seduction Method by Carlos Xuma

INTERESTED PROBABLY Crosses arms


NOT INTERESTED Arms are open, uncrossed



WTF I thought closed arms were a bad sign. Some1 help me out.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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flippinfreak

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This is when you are watching a girl who is allalone in her own world. When she is not talking to anybody, but is simply staring, and waiting...

IMHO, trying to read BL without initiating any of it, is just a way of finding really really boring girls. SAme goes for a girl look for a lone guy to chill with... same goes for GWM sarging lone females who are toogrumpy or high strung to approach.
 

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Man it's all bs man.All these socalled Guru's are sheisters.They just want your money.They're building a fanbase online to sell them books and cd's and dvd's.

It's all bs.
 

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My response is in my sig. Nuff said.
 

mkk359

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Tha Realnezz said:
Man it's all bs man.All these socalled Guru's are sheisters.They just want your money.They're building a fanbase online to sell them books and cd's and dvd's.

It's all bs.
Not when you get it from a 'friend'
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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About the only generalizations I've found that tend to hold true almost without fail that indicate a gal is attracted to you are:

1) She stays or moves close to you without being in a crowded situation in which doing so is inevitable. If there's a lot of space, and she stays close to you, she's attracted. If her breasts or midsection incidentally (or not so incidentally) touch you, she's very attracted.

2) If she smiles at you a real lot, she's attracted.

As for things like crossed arms, they could be signs of shyness or repulsion. Depends upon the person and the situation.
 

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But generally crossed arms are a sign of being defensive. Its not necessarily "bad"
 

flippinfreak

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It also means, "I'm cold" or "my arms are tired"

I think he WANTS it to mean "I'm bored"(so I'm going to cross my arms cause I have nothing else to do)

Most of these guys are just speaking to bring up your confidence levels.
 
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