"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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dave007

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age: 17
height:176 cm,5'9
weight: 69kgs
I don't have an access to a gym..
I am at a beginner's level currently:
monday,wednesday, friday, sunday[30 minutes each day):3sets pushups(as many as I can do in one go with 60sec break between each set)
3 sets crunches
3 lunges(with 2 five gallon pails)
tuesday, thursday,saturday:cardios(biking or sprints)[30 minures

Target:build lean muscle mass, stronger arms,butt and reduce facial fat
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Warboss Alex

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find a gym. you are limited here in what you can achieve and gains will be marginal
 

BluEyes

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Target:build lean muscle mass, stronger arms,butt and reduce facial fat
You build lean muscle mass through progressive resistance. Pushups are great but it's not easy to progressively add more weight to your push up.

Stronger arms will come when you build your main muscle groups(legs, chest, back, post. chain)

You'll get a stronger butt by doing squats, lunges, and stiff-leg deadlifts. The way you do lunges now is fine, but you have to figure out a way to add more weight each time.

You can only reduce facial fat when your total body fat lowers. I'm guessing you are over 16% bf, if you want to define your face you should be at <12% bf. You weigh ~152lbs, so you should aim to be losing roughly 5-10lbs of fat. However I'd focus first on gaining 5-10lbs of muscle than losing the fat. Chances are you'll lose it by simply gaining that muscle mass over a few months.

Your muscle gains will be determined by whether you get your ass into the gym. Also, by your diet.

Why do you work out on sunday?
 

EFFORT

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BluEyes said:
Why do you work out on sunday?
I workout on sunday thanks to ironaddict (Wesley)
 
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