Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
Yes because Effort and WBA don't have a clue about writing routines...Mad Manic said:
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
If their routines were so amazing you wouldn't be plateauing on half your lifts mate. When a routine is too low in volume, the muscles aren't battered enough so that they come back considerably stronger the week after. That's essentially why volume exists, otherwise we cud just do 1 rep maxes. As for that routine, leg day looks ok but the push and pull days aren't too good. No Flat BB Bench, no dips, need both rows and chins, good mornings not needed, more bicep and tricep work and more sets in general.Quagmire911 said:Yes because Effort and WBA don't have a clue about writing routines...
You live in f***** koo koo land.
Quagmire
I ain't even going to bother arguing. People can do whatever they want.Mad Manic said:
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Back and knees feel fine this morning. I'll probably stick with the deadlifts.Quagmire911 said:
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.