Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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ChrizZ

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Hey guys,

so yesterday I felt like sh!t cuz I rejected myself so I decided to work harder on my game. I tried out MM today and prepared a routine before I went sarging.

I started to #close some average looking chicks as a warm up. Then I went into A&F and I saw this banging hot chick.

Me *standing right next to her*: "You know, I never even bothered to ask up till this moment, but how come every woman is buying those ugly shirts" *looking at the clothes that were on the counter*

That got her attention.

Me: "Hey, do u work here? You need to help me out. I'm looking for a shirt for a female friend of mine because her birthday is coming up"

HB9: "Yeah, sure. What kind of shirts are u looking for?"

Me: "I kinda like your shirt, but the problem is that a lot of women are wearing the exact same thing. I want to find something special for her."

HB9: "Yeah, I know. A lot of girls are wearing this."

Me *turning my back on her*: What do u guys got over there? *leading her to a different part of the store*

We looked for clothes and talked some more

Me: "Let me see this shirt" *holding it onto her* I like it ... and the shirt doesn't look bad either (c&f + kino)

*she was asking me about what my female friend looks like (she was now qualifying herself)*

Me: "You know, the thing is I already bought a shirt for my friend, but you're not gonna believe me this..."

*me sitting down somewhere, she was leaning in and was getting excited*

Me: ... you know. When I came from overseas they lost my luggage (this was actually true!).

HB9: "Oh, no...!" Where r u from?"

Me: "I'm from Europe"

HB9: "Oh really, what part of Europe?"

Me: "Everywhere. I travel everywhere around Europe to play golf."

HB9: "That's awesome. blablabla"

After that we were making small talk and she was asking me lots of questions.

Me: "Okay. Here is what we're gonna do. U told me u like to party, so gimme ur number and we'll go partying sometime.

HB: *without hesitation* Sure!

I #closed and ejected after that.

To my surprise MM actually works really well. I had a really strong frame and was really smooth and showed disinterenst with my BL. I also didn't talk fast and made a lot of pauses.

feedback pls.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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very nice,
but was the playing golf part true?
 

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B4IFURU18? said:
Standard conversation I suppose.
so what should I have done in your opinion to make this a better conversation?
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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The only bad thing is you didn't get more approaches. But the one you did get was great, better than anything I've done yet.
 

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ElStud said:
The only bad thing is you didn't get more approaches. But the one you did get was great, better than anything I've done yet.
I got more approaches and #closed. Not with hot chicks though.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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DevanE said:
DAAAAMN!!!!..she must be a really dumass hor to fall for that sh**. :crazy: I'm not saying anything bad about what you did but we both obviously know what you WERE doing and it worked pretty good. Keep it up and as you get better, try taking bigger and bigger risks like coping more feel (kino) and being more sexual maybe even to a point where you can tell the girl is oozing for you...big guy!!!!. :flowers:
Well, actually she's working on becoming a doctor. The thing I found out about MM is that the smarter the girls are the easier it works. I was simply using psychology on her. I sometimes feel bad for the girls because they can't do anything against it.:yes:

What I also found out. The thing that gets u a lot of attraction is your voice and the way u talk. I tried talking calm and slow like Mystery.
 
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Nice, you got her number.. But now what?

Is there another MM technique to get her into bed?
 

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Dude, excellent work! So what will you do with her number? You gotta keep us updated on when you call her and stuff! I'd really love to see how you do! Best of luck buddy!
 

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DonDan said:
Nice, you got her number.. But now what?

Is there another MM technique to get her into bed?
actually yes, there is. I will call her sometime and ask her out to lunch or something like that.
 

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So I guess now you use neg hits to lower someone else's value:D
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Dongfu said:
So I guess now you use neg hits to lower someone else's value:D
You know, where I'm from we got an old saying...

In war and love anything is allowed :D
 

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ChrizZ said:
You know, where I'm from we got an old saying...

In war and love anything is allowed :D
true dat

hey, i'm working on a post that will explain the second and third levels of the neg, and it's purpose - MM only teaches the first, the lowest form. Look out for it.
 

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Sounds great!
I could say dats the best accomplishment..keep us updated till u f**k close her dude.
 

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I'll try my best. However I'm not gonna focus all my attention on her. I hate not having options. Tomorrow I'll go street sarging again and get some more #closes with some extremely fine chicks. I'll post some more FRs tomorrow.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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