"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Hey guys,

so yesterday I felt like sh!t cuz I rejected myself so I decided to work harder on my game. I tried out MM today and prepared a routine before I went sarging.

I started to #close some average looking chicks as a warm up. Then I went into A&F and I saw this banging hot chick.

Me *standing right next to her*: "You know, I never even bothered to ask up till this moment, but how come every woman is buying those ugly shirts" *looking at the clothes that were on the counter*

That got her attention.

Me: "Hey, do u work here? You need to help me out. I'm looking for a shirt for a female friend of mine because her birthday is coming up"

HB9: "Yeah, sure. What kind of shirts are u looking for?"

Me: "I kinda like your shirt, but the problem is that a lot of women are wearing the exact same thing. I want to find something special for her."

HB9: "Yeah, I know. A lot of girls are wearing this."

Me *turning my back on her*: What do u guys got over there? *leading her to a different part of the store*

We looked for clothes and talked some more

Me: "Let me see this shirt" *holding it onto her* I like it ... and the shirt doesn't look bad either (c&f + kino)

*she was asking me about what my female friend looks like (she was now qualifying herself)*

Me: "You know, the thing is I already bought a shirt for my friend, but you're not gonna believe me this..."

*me sitting down somewhere, she was leaning in and was getting excited*

Me: ... you know. When I came from overseas they lost my luggage (this was actually true!).

HB9: "Oh, no...!" Where r u from?"

Me: "I'm from Europe"

HB9: "Oh really, what part of Europe?"

Me: "Everywhere. I travel everywhere around Europe to play golf."

HB9: "That's awesome. blablabla"

After that we were making small talk and she was asking me lots of questions.

Me: "Okay. Here is what we're gonna do. U told me u like to party, so gimme ur number and we'll go partying sometime.

HB: *without hesitation* Sure!

I #closed and ejected after that.

To my surprise MM actually works really well. I had a really strong frame and was really smooth and showed disinterenst with my BL. I also didn't talk fast and made a lot of pauses.

feedback pls.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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very nice,
but was the playing golf part true?
 

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B4IFURU18? said:
Standard conversation I suppose.
so what should I have done in your opinion to make this a better conversation?
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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The only bad thing is you didn't get more approaches. But the one you did get was great, better than anything I've done yet.
 

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ElStud said:
The only bad thing is you didn't get more approaches. But the one you did get was great, better than anything I've done yet.
I got more approaches and #closed. Not with hot chicks though.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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DevanE said:
DAAAAMN!!!!..she must be a really dumass hor to fall for that sh**. :crazy: I'm not saying anything bad about what you did but we both obviously know what you WERE doing and it worked pretty good. Keep it up and as you get better, try taking bigger and bigger risks like coping more feel (kino) and being more sexual maybe even to a point where you can tell the girl is oozing for you...big guy!!!!. :flowers:
Well, actually she's working on becoming a doctor. The thing I found out about MM is that the smarter the girls are the easier it works. I was simply using psychology on her. I sometimes feel bad for the girls because they can't do anything against it.:yes:

What I also found out. The thing that gets u a lot of attraction is your voice and the way u talk. I tried talking calm and slow like Mystery.
 
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Nice, you got her number.. But now what?

Is there another MM technique to get her into bed?
 

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Dude, excellent work! So what will you do with her number? You gotta keep us updated on when you call her and stuff! I'd really love to see how you do! Best of luck buddy!
 

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DonDan said:
Nice, you got her number.. But now what?

Is there another MM technique to get her into bed?
actually yes, there is. I will call her sometime and ask her out to lunch or something like that.
 

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So I guess now you use neg hits to lower someone else's value:D
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Dongfu said:
So I guess now you use neg hits to lower someone else's value:D
You know, where I'm from we got an old saying...

In war and love anything is allowed :D
 

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ChrizZ said:
You know, where I'm from we got an old saying...

In war and love anything is allowed :D
true dat

hey, i'm working on a post that will explain the second and third levels of the neg, and it's purpose - MM only teaches the first, the lowest form. Look out for it.
 

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Sounds great!
I could say dats the best accomplishment..keep us updated till u f**k close her dude.
 

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I'll try my best. However I'm not gonna focus all my attention on her. I hate not having options. Tomorrow I'll go street sarging again and get some more #closes with some extremely fine chicks. I'll post some more FRs tomorrow.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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