“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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ladiesgod

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I get a lot of initial attraction online but always screw up what should have been an easy number conversion. I'm not seeing why.

So I thought I'd create a thread where we can all help each other improve our message game. This is for completed conversations with women online whether you converted the number or not. Do not post any"what do I say next?" questions.

Grade the persons interaction and then give the reason why. The point is to give pointers on how the number could've been gotten sooner or where they screwed up and what they could have said instead. Maybe he did fine and she was just a flake.
 

What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.

You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

ladiesgod

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I will go first:

Me-Nice pics and like your profile. You should take me out sometime ;)

Her-Lol that was sweet! Sure thing

Me - I like that! I gotta make sure we're compatible first.
Are you a texter or phoner?
Would rather have sex or your fav dessert?

Her- Phone sex!

Me - I only do phone sex if you're too far for the real thing. Going to bed horny sucks! Where are you?

Her - Lol I meant I rather the phone over text and I rather sex over dessert lol but no phone sex

Next day:
Me - Good Afternoon Luvely. We're moving way too fast. We're talking about s & d (sex & dessert) without even know your name. Let's slow it down speedster. Send me your number. Ill send you a nice text and we'll take it from there.

I never heard back again. I guess I screwed up the last message? IDK...what I have done better?
 

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I just posted about how to kill it online with a step by step process I follow(like a cookie cutter almost), in this thread:

http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=220740 and this thread:

http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=220733

I've gotten 50+ numbers in the past 6 weeks or so, 15 in the last 2 or 3 days...

Stop with the sex talk right of the bat...you come off as desperate. Just act normal. Trust me. Normal online sets you apart from 90% of the guys. In a good way.

And your messages come across as way too "try hard"...again...just act normal.
 
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