"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Hello guys!

I'm gonna tell you about yesterday. I got drunk and went on a party. Picked up one of my friends friend and had sex in a room there. Me and she was very drunk and it did not go so well, gents, I couldn't get it up because of all the alcohol in my blood.

I wonder what to tell her when I meet her, should I say Hi? What should I tell my friends? Will she tell it to her friends? And the problem, I think she wants me but I just wanted to fvck. What should I do? I will meet her tommorow :confused:
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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pseudo.Sam

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You should just be your usual self. Like it's just another day. If she happens to bring up the issue about how it couldnt get up and all...just make fun of it like "ohh my little buddy was drunk as well" and enjoy a laugh :)

Sooner or later you're gonna get another shot at her. And when that happens, make sure it gets up.
 
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I hate it when I cant get it up lol. It doesnt happen often but sometimes it will if im feeling really anxious or paranoid or just not relaxed. Heres some advice:

-RELAX!
-Dont drink as much
-Take deep breaths
-Go slow
 
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"Hey (her name), man I was soooo drunk that night"
"Ha ha me too"

That's about all you need to say to her about that night.
 
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its something that happens to the best of us, it was either anxiety or like you said you were too drunk, act like everything's normal and forget about it. you might have another chance at her or if you don't there's other girls
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Well it WAS because of the alchol. So act cool, it's fine, it happens to all of us. If she brings it up say something like the above post. Make a joke about your tool being drunk too.

Don't feel akward!
 
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