"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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sbgm

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Hello guys!

I'm gonna tell you about yesterday. I got drunk and went on a party. Picked up one of my friends friend and had sex in a room there. Me and she was very drunk and it did not go so well, gents, I couldn't get it up because of all the alcohol in my blood.

I wonder what to tell her when I meet her, should I say Hi? What should I tell my friends? Will she tell it to her friends? And the problem, I think she wants me but I just wanted to fvck. What should I do? I will meet her tommorow :confused:
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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pseudo.Sam

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You should just be your usual self. Like it's just another day. If she happens to bring up the issue about how it couldnt get up and all...just make fun of it like "ohh my little buddy was drunk as well" and enjoy a laugh :)

Sooner or later you're gonna get another shot at her. And when that happens, make sure it gets up.
 

eaglez1177

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I hate it when I cant get it up lol. It doesnt happen often but sometimes it will if im feeling really anxious or paranoid or just not relaxed. Heres some advice:

-RELAX!
-Dont drink as much
-Take deep breaths
-Go slow
 

Maxtro

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"Hey (her name), man I was soooo drunk that night"
"Ha ha me too"

That's about all you need to say to her about that night.
 

rtb227

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its something that happens to the best of us, it was either anxiety or like you said you were too drunk, act like everything's normal and forget about it. you might have another chance at her or if you don't there's other girls
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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R1ch4rd

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Well it WAS because of the alchol. So act cool, it's fine, it happens to all of us. If she brings it up say something like the above post. Make a joke about your tool being drunk too.

Don't feel akward!
 
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