"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Crimean referendum, is it legal?

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Basically people of Crimea showed middle finger to Ukraine and separated from it. Today, the 16th of March, they voted and become an independent country. Now if Russia approves, they will become a state under Russian Federation.

West, in particular United States, has a problem with a referendum like that. They say all of Ukraine should have decided the fate of Crimean people, and that it is not up to Crimean people to decide their own fate. (it is like if Texas wanted to separate from United States, it wouldn't be enough for all Texans to vote for separation, all of United States had to vote as well, approving their decision).

So, what about Venice, Italy. It too is holding a referendum, and the people of Venice are voting, people of Italy have no say.

Notice I'm not even bringing up Kosovo.

WTF west? WTF United States? WTF did you smoke? :kick:




P.S. If your TV told you Ukraine is against Crimea separating, your TV lied to you. People in Ukraine prevented tanks from moving towards Crimea. Ukrainian army on territory of Crimea joined the populous. Ukrainian fleet fled to Sevastopol (capitol city of Crimea, and a large sea port). Ukrainians do not support western coup in Ukraine and Neo-Nazis that come to power. More of Ukraine will separate from itself, I think.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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According to Obama & Co., all of Russia would have to vote in favour of Chechnya's separation. At least that's the standard they seem to apply to Crimea. Of course, a different set of rules applies when a region supported by the U.S. decides to separate from a country that is not-so-friendly with the U.S. (the breakup of Yugoslavia an obvious example). "International law" is a funny thing.
 

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Lol let crimea join russia. When the rest of ukraine joins the EU and turns its economy around, crimeans can sit enjoying their russian human rights and booming economy.....

lol oh wait xD
 

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Jaylan said:
Lol let crimea join russia. When the rest of ukraine joins the EU and turns its economy around, crimeans can sit enjoying their russian human rights and booming economy.....

lol oh wait xD
Because joining the EU worked out great for Ukraine's neighbours, Bulgaria and Romania. lol oh wait...
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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bradd80 said:
well those two countries weren't exactly models of economic development before they joined the EU either :crackup:
And joining the EU did nothing to change that.
 
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